“Clitorises can vary greatly between women. Some are quite big, others tiny. But they’ll always be in the same place so it’s just a matter of knowing where to look. As it becomes more stimulated, it will swell and become more prominent. With the hand you wrapped around her leg and placed on her stoma…”— Eli Walton, lovepanky.com
“Reach one arm under her leg and around over her stomach. Let it rest on her pubic hair.”— Eli Walton, lovepanky.com
“If she senses you're feeling the least bit obligated or bored, she will shut down. Please be aware of how vulnerable she may feel lying there with her legs spread and try to be very complimentary and enthusiastic.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.com
“Try swirling your tongue around her clitoris in small circles, clockwise and then counter-clockwise. You’ll find the right spot, guaranteed.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.com
“This is not fast food. This is a gourmet restaurant and she wants you to savor every moment. Kiss and nibble her inner thighs, use your lips or your breath on her labia.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.com
“You might be looking at 10, 20, 30 minutes (depending on your partner), so be ready. If you do want to take a break, don't be too abrupt about it. Instead, transition to something else, like kissing or massaging other parts of her body.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.com
“Set up a feedback system, like having your partner pull on your hair if she likes what you're doing and pat you if she doesn't.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.com
“Include light hair pulling, nipple massaging, and gentle scratching along your partner's torso.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.com
“Another fun oral position to try is "under the sink." She stands right next to the side of the bed and squats down a little. There should just be enough room for you to lay on your back on the bed and place your head between her legs. She is mostly in control of her own pleasure. She can squat furth…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.com
“Try the reverse hug technique. This shouldn't be too hard if you're in good shape. You'll need to hold her upside down in front of you. Her head and shoulders should rest on the bed, and her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that she won't feel too much pressure a…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.com
“Once you make it to her clit and vagina, gently lick all around. Direct stimulation can be too intense for some, so explore the surrounding area. Ask her where she likes to be touched. You don't have to be rough with your mouth unless she wants you to. It's always best to start off slow, unless she…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.com
“Know that trick you read where spelling the alphabet on her ladybits with your tongue is the best thing ever? It’s not. It’s just weird.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“While we know you want to use every tool you’ve got when you’re down there, never, ever use your teeth.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Tell your girl she’s beautiful, and let her know how into it you are, too. That’ll go a long way.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Hey, guys, you know how it doesn’t feel that great when a girl goes down on you after spending a week in the Sahara without water or, like, a stick of gum? It’s always smart to hydrate beforehand.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.com
“My clitoris is a sensitive creature. Please do not tongue-punch her as if you’re trying to retrieve a very stubborn sprinkle from a tub of molasses.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.com
“Make sure your tongue is as consistent and active as you would want her to be when she goes down on you. Follow the same pattern, over and over again, with a hint of variety for fun.”— Tasha Reign, brobible.com
“Take your time! Guys are always rushing through this and trying to get right to the sex before it’s time! Make her orgasm first, so you can fuck her silly after. She will enjoy sex so much better when she’s properly warmed up!”— Tasha Reign, brobible.com
“Now if you really want to take things up a notch, and you’re pretty open-minded sexually, consider lick around her other hole while you are down there. Rimming will give her multiple sensations, and you will prove your commitment to her naked body!”— Tasha Reign, brobible.com