“When giving a woman oral sex, try to get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“It’s really important to use the flatter and softer part of your tongue – especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will like this, some won’t. And even a girl that likes it one day may not the next day.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“A surprising number of people don’t know this – but the clit isn’t just a little button floating in the pussy. The button is connected to a shaft – much like the penis. It’s incredibly stimulating to have a finger on each side of the shaft rubbing up and down – just as you would do to a penis. (Up a…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.com
“Take your time getting there. Unless it’s one of those intense sexual hook-ups where the throw-down is in over-drive or you only have 10 minutes until the kids come home from school, don’t go straight for the goods. Take some time to kiss her whole body, every once in a while brush by her pussy – wi…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.com
“I suggest that you turn your mouth, or your whole body, sideways to meet it where it is – and make out with it. Soft kisses at first, all over. Then, bring the tongue in, lightly at first – keeping your lips glued to hers, literally just like you were kissing her real mouth. Let the tongue go deeper…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.com
“Don't approach it like you are doing her a favor. You're going down on her, not reluctantly skipping your fantasy sports game to go to her zitty cousin's graduation dinner.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com
“That five o'clock shadow that looked super hot on you while we were at dinner does not feel hot when it is brushing against the sensitive petals of a lady's Wonder Orchid. Furthermore, spin class with crotchal beard-burn hurts like a motherfucker. Be more considerate!”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com
“Not too much chin, please. Overly chinny oral sex for women is like overly toothy oral sex for men.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com
“When you get into a good rhythm and she’s about to orgasm, resist the urge to speed up or change anything. Trust that you both communicate honestly enough that she'll tell you if something's not working.”— Zeynep Yenisey, maxim.com
“Pay attention to what she’s doing. If she’s squirming, moaning, and clawing at the sheets, congratulations! Keep up the good work. If she looks bored, she probably is, which means it’s time to employ a different technique.”— Zeynep Yenisey, maxim.com
“Try wetting your finger with her vaginal juices, then slowly easing it into her. You can move your hand in and out, or make a ‘come here’ motion that will stroke her G-spot. You can also use a finger to trace the folds of her labia, or use your hands to pull her labia further apart, or to stroke her…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Keep reminding that she looks, smells, and tastes amazing at each step of the process. The more at ease she feels, the more she’ll be able to enjoy herself.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Don’t be afraid of breaking out the vibrator! It can be an invaluable tool to the art of oral. The average woman takes 20 minutes to climax from oral sex, so you’re going to be there for a while. There’s no shame in implementing the help of a tried-and-true toy.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.com
“You must start off in a teasing manner in the beginning. A slight lick of the tongue going up and down is good, licking the thighs at first and then slowly starting to move down, gaining intensity and speed.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.com
“Your partner probably knows the position that’s most comfortable for her to be in, but if she’s open to suggestions, put a pillow under her butt to lift her pelvis up, which will give you great leverage—and make her feel fantastic.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.com
“The Supernova (oral sex). This is when a girl fills her mouth with pop rocks and then gives her man a very confusing-yet-stimulating beejay. Orifice-based fireworks? Charming.”— Guyism Staff, brobible.com
“67 Position (oral sex). One of the greatest things about oral sex is taking turns. One person gets to totally relax and receive, and the other person can focus on giving as much pleasure as possible. 69 can be really distracting, and most people just end up moaning and gasping rather than focusing o…”— Alex Alexander, thoughtcatalog.com