“Choose a waterproof vibrator to use in the tub or shower. The shower masks any vibrator noise, but not everyone can accomplish an orgasm standing up, and often we need a long time to get aroused enough. We can be more relaxed in the bathtub, but some vibrators make more noise under water.”— Joan Price, seniorplanet.org
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“While rimming can be orgasmic, it doesn’t actually give an orgasm. However, it can be that extra oomph that makes an O ecstatic. It is also essential step if you’re gonna shove anything bigger than a finger up there.”— Doctor V., thefrisky.com
“Once you begin to accept your yourself for who are, you will find yourself becoming less self-conscious and notice that it becomes easier to reach orgasm.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.com
“If you would feel sexier wearing lingerie, then wear it. If baggy pajamas are your thing, then put them on. But if you feel much sexier and free when you are completely naked then don’t wear anything at all. Remember having an orgasm is all about you, so do what makes you feel best.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.com
“See a pelvic floor physical therapist. Yes, this is a thing, and it’s the perfect way to kick your strengthening regimen up a notch if you're really struggling with having satisfying orgasms.”— Rachel Zar, refinery29.com
“Really look at your partner, feel your skin being touched, and focus on incorporating your whole body instead of just your genitals. You may not discover enlightenment, but your orgasm will surely be profound.”— Rachel Zar, refinery29.com
“Spend some time on clitoral stimulation during foreplay, or try one of several topical oils or balms, like Zestra, designed to be applied directly to the clitoris.”— Rachel Zar, refinery29.com
“Reposition your bodies so you can multitask, using your hands AND mouths while also having sex.”— Spencer Althouse, buzzfeed.com
“If you’re getting close, make sure your partner doesn’t change their rhythm.”— Spencer Althouse, buzzfeed.com
“Placing a couple pillows under your hips will work wonders. It basically changes the angle of penetration.”— Spencer Althouse, buzzfeed.com
“Alcohol can certainly lower one’s sexual inhibitions, but it can also make it harder to achieve orgasm at all, and can decrease orgasm intensity when you do have one. If you’re trying to maximize your orgasm, stick to only a drink or two. Or better yet, have sex before you go out!”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.com
“There are lots of reasons to date someone with a good sense of humor, but did you know that humor actually correlates with better sex?”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.com
“Many people find that if they vary their breathing pattern from slow and deep to short and quick it adds to sexual arousal and can help trigger orgasm.”— Beth Orenstein, bustle.com
“Staying fit won't just make you more confident about yourself in the sack: Regular exercisers report being more sexually satisfied.”— Arielle Pardes, womenshealthmag.com
“Certain foods, like oatmeal and peaches, can boost your libido, getting you even closer to the finish line.”— Arielle Pardes, womenshealthmag.com
“You might want to consider lube as a necessity rather than just an added bonus”— Anonymous, womenshealthmag.com