“Walk around in your lingerie, soak in a tub, or get a massage. When you give yourself this extra time, you will reconnect with your inner sensuality and hubbie, and that leads to major bow chica wow wow sex.”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.com
“Going to town down there is great and all, but there are so many other overlooked erogenous zones that will only make your pleasure more intense. Ask your hubbie to kiss and graze his tongue along your upper thighs, back, shoulders, and earlobes, and you will be wound up like the tiger that you real…”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.com
“It's so important to change up positions, location, and foreplay when you hit the sheets if you want the strongest O. Even him going down on you—which many claim is the guaranteed gateway to the female climax—can get boring if you fall into a monotonous pattern.”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.com
“We often forget that stimulating the pubic bone, thighs and belly can really add up to the ability to orgasm.”— Carolyn Riccardi, yourtango.com
“Try a vibrator held by either of you or consider wearing a small one during intercourse so your hands can be exploring other places.”— Megan Morris, womenshealthmag.com
“In taking just five to 10 minutes out of your day to do your Kegel exercises (and you can pretty much do them anywhere), you’re working to strengthen your pelvic floor. Strong pelvic floors help to make achieving an orgasm far easier than it would be normally.”— Amanda Chatel, bolde.com
“The more you masturbate, the more you get to know your body. Women who have phenomenal sex lives are the same women who masturbate regularly, because they have an awareness about how their body works, what leaves them feeling ‘meh,’ and what really gets them off. Knowledge is power, people!”— Amanda Chatel, bolde.com
“Toys, especially vibrators, provide a stimulation that even the most skilled fingers and tongue can’t, so there’s no shame in using a vibrator on your clitoris while your partner penetrates you.”— Amanda Chatel, bolde.com
“If you want to have an orgasm during intercourse, you will need to make sure you are sufficiently ‘turned on’ before intercourse happens. Whether this means that before you hop into bed with your lover, you read some of your favorite erotica, have some alone time in the bathtub to play with your duc…”— Cynthia Loyst, findyourpleasure.com
“If you’ve experienced sexual abuse or trauma of any kind, you may find it hard to reach orgasm during sex. Even if you rationally understand that your boyfriend would never hurt you, your body may not be fully able to relax when you’re being intimate. One technique to help yourself feel more at ease…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Do you have a specific way that you masturbate? Some women masturbate the exact same way every time, and actually wind up creating mental blockages to reaching orgasm with a partner (this happens a lot for men too, by the way). You may find yourself distracted because you’re critiquing his speed or…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“As you’re having sex, look at what your partner is doing to you, and narrate all of the action to yourself. For example, ‘he’s using his tongue to trace circles around my clitoris. Now he’s flicking my clitoris with the tip of his tongue.’ This suggestion might sound kind of silly, but it can be ext…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“You can boost your chances of having an orgasm by choosing the right foreplay.”— Kate Moriarty, womenshealthmag.com
“If you really want to have an orgasm during penetration, make sure your clitoris is involved and your head is in the game.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com
“Have your partner lie on top of you, with his pelvis directly over yours. Wrap your legs around his thighs and rock together gently. Push up and forward so that your clitoris makes contact with the base of his penis. Patience is key: Find your rhythm and stick to it until you orgasm.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.com
“Women who use vibrators say they have an easier time reaching orgasm during (vibrator-free) sex with a partner.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.com
“Let an ancient sex stimulant work its magic: Warm some milk, add a pinch of saffron, and drink up.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.com
“Let an ancient sex stimulant work its magic: Warm some milk, add a pinch of saffron, and drink up.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.com
“If you are stiff or are concentrating intently on the possibility of an orgasm (or lack thereof), your body will fight climax and actually begin to produce less natural lubricant, making the goal harder to achieve. So, just lie back and slip into the moment, allowing your mind and body to accept the…”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.com