“Try running one or two fingers up and down the length of his penis. Using the middle three fingers on both hands, gently press at the base of the penis, moving your hands around the circle like the face of a clock.”— Your Tango, yourtango.com
“There is such a thing as too tight. I mean, you don’t want to stop the blood flow to the poor little carpet snake.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.com
“When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot his load everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Use more pressure. A lot of women don’t realize just how sturdy the male penis is. They tend to treat it daintily, as if it might break off in their hands. It should come as no surprise that this makes for a pretty boring hand job! Instead, grip the penis firmly in your hand, and keep a tight hold a…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“He pushes for quick involvement. He comes on strong, claiming, 'I've never felt loved like this before by anyone.' You get pressured for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.”— Wendy Kay, yourtango.com
“You want to know how two chemicals interact, do you ask them? No, they're going to lie through their lying little teeth. Throw them in a beaker and apply heat.”— Matt Witten, Peter Blake, Dr. Gregory House, Hugh Laurie, amazon.com
“They don’t pressure you. No means no and no one should ever pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. If you're sensing this type of behavior before you even hit the sheets, it might not be worth taking this person back to your bedroom.”— Sarah Kelsey, slice.ca
“Being on top is a full quad workout. To take some of the pressure off that one area of your body, lean forward and place a forearm on either side of your partner’s head.”— Gigi Engle, elitedaily.com
“He’s pushy about getting physical. Some guys will say just about anything to get a woman to have sex with him.”— Matt Schneiderman, match.com
“Do not put my old man in a death grip and pull it so furiously that it feels like being trapped in a threshing machine. Don’t hold on for dear life. I’m lying flat on your futon. I’m going nowhere.”— Gavin James Bower, sabotagetimes.com
“One of the most basic ways that people mess up kissing is by going to extremes with the amount of pressure they use. Some people are way too forceful with their kisses, and wind up bumping teeth, pushing their partner backwards, or coming off as aggressive. Other people are shy and timid, and their…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“It’s really important to use the flatter and softer part of your tongue – especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“Even if the sex wasn't great, you never have to see him again anyway! No pressure, no obligation, no awkward cup of coffee after he treated your vag like a Tilt-A-Whirl. Just you, alone, watching TV and smiling like a boss.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com
“When you know you're never going to date this person, or see them again, the pressure to perform relaxes. Lower expectations allow you to really let go, be yourself (or someone else) and enjoy. So go ahead, get weird.”— Cara Hessels, maxim.com
“It was interesting how you could say things when you where walking that you might not otherwise have said with the pressure of eye contact across a table.”— Liane Moriarty, amazon.com
“Just as clay needs to go through intense heat to become strong, Love can only be perfected in pain.”— Elif Shafak, amazon.com