101 Quotes Of Everything You're Doing Wrong In Relationships

“There’s no faster way to repel a man than to need him. Wanting a man is not the same as needing one.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“You need to believe this phrase when you say it to yourself: I’m totally chill being single but having a boyfriend sounds like it could be fun. Who wouldn’t want to date me? After all, I am the shit. Only then are you really ready to enter into the big, bad dating world.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“A big mistake I see women making is blaming themselves when a relationship falls apart. They torture themselves with could haves and should haves. I should have been less needy, I should have been more agreeable, I could have been more supportive, etc. Yeah, you could have done all that, but it woul…”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“We just mean that a man should complement you, not complete you.”

— I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies...: How to find love & sh*t like that, amazon.com

“When you’ve been hurt you are faced with a choice: hold onto it and stay hurt, or just let it go.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“If you don’t have your shit together enough to genuinely believe that you are fucking amazing and that any guy is lucky to have you, then going on dates is a complete waste of your time. I mean, one of the cornerstones of being a betch is not just knowing you’re the hottest thing in the room, but be…”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”

— Stephen Chbosky, amazon.com

“In order to correctly identify the right one for you, you need to know who you are. You need to know your values, your boundaries, your fundamental needs, your wants, what you can compromise on, and what your absolute deal-breakers are.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“So many girls make the mistake of getting caught up in how the guy feels about them rather than focusing on how they feel about him.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

— Maya Angelou, amazon.com

“Never Want Someone Who Doesn’t Want You.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“She who texts first loses.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“The nicegirl plays by the rules without ever questioning them. She’s dull, lacks depth, lets people walk all over her, yet brings nothing to the table. If she disappeared, you wouldn’t even notice. She’s the girl who rarely colors outside the lines of her life, and even then only in baby pink. She’s…”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“He’s expecting you to call and text him at all hours of the day and night professing your undying love. This is what the ‘hard to get man’ is accustomed to. And guess what? He’s losing respect for you each time he sees your name pop up on his phone.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, you will go for someone who doesn’t treat you well, and you will be OK with it because he’s just validating how you feel about yourself.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Guys will pull away just to see how you respond to it. If you go bat shit crazy they run for the hills...So for now let him go. I promise you he'll come back if you just stand still. Remember anything you chase runs further.”

— Kirsten Corley, facebook.com

“Show him the silent treatment until he’s knocking on your door, making grand gestures and more importantly providing you with a plan that gives you what you need.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“Self-respect is a one-punch knockout to a guy. When you are confident enough to wield your power and you show that you aren’t fearful of losing him, he becomes fearful of losing you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Chasing a man may work out for a little while, but the happiest women understand that confidence comes from knowing he wants you.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“If you’re afraid of getting hurt or feel like the guys you want always leave you, then you might subconsciously be putting up walls to protect yourself.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, then you will always be attracted to people who don’t value you either.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“For every three to four attempts he makes to contact you only reply to one.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you he'll do the asking.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Your only job is to show him you can live without him. Show him you do not need him and you might be surprised how fast he comes looking for you. Most importantly -- make your exit with class, dignity and pride intact.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“The most common trap women fall into in relationships is trying to be good enough for the guy. They get stuck plotting and planning their every move in an effort to prove their worth to him. This is the worst way to be in a relationship. For one, it reeks of insecurity and neediness. It also puts th…”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“No answer is your answer.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“The first step in having a healthy relationship is always to work on being your best self. This means being honest with yourself, looking at who you are and who you want to be, and dealing with anything that is getting in the way of that. Your partner can help you get there, but he can’t do it for y…”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“At the end of the day, what proves you are a class act is when you can remain calm, cool and collected even in times of trouble.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com