“Love magnifies and brings clarity to whatever is most present in your life. So if the things that are most present are self-doubt, lostness, insecurity, etc., you will only have more and more of that.”Tagged: Love, Clarity, Relationships, Healthy Love
“Illusions have to be justified. Half-truths have to be made sense of. The genuine things, the best things, the 'most right' things, truly just are.”Tagged: Truth, Genuineness, The Right Thing, Intuition
“If you are making a choice that you can only feel good about when you back up with a list of 'because,' you're not really listening to what you want.”Tagged: Desire, Wanting Things, Choices, Change, Intuition
“A good life is not measured by what you do, it's about who you are. Not how many people you loved, but how much. It has nothing to do with how well things turn out or how seamlessly the plan is followed. It's about the bits of magic you stumble upon when you dive off path.”Tagged: Life, Magic, Happiness, A Good Life, Love
“The point of anything is not what you get from having done it, it's who you become from having gone through it.”Tagged: Life, Change, Self-Development, Self-Concept, Growth
“The core of every emotional issue is the belief that it's not okay.”Tagged: emotions, Emotion, Belief, Perception, Pain
“What owns you in this life? Is it your desire for happiness? The past? The relationship that almost-was-but-ultimately-didn't Your body hang-up? Your fear? Your loneliness? Your lack of self-worth? Everybody has one thing that ultimately owns them, drives them, controls them at some visceral level.…”Tagged: Life, Control, Self-Sabotage
“Everything is hard, but you choose your hard. You don't choose whether or not you'll suffer, but you do choose what you want to suffer for.”Tagged: Pain, Growth, Life, Suffering, Choice
“Figure out what you most need to heal within yourself by seeing what you most want to change in others.”Tagged: Change, Anger, Self-Perception
“The only reason people don't do what they claim to want most is because there is something else they want a little bit more.”Tagged: Passion, Logic, Growth, Creativity
“The opposite of passion isn't settling for a lukewarm life, it's marrying it to logic that will actually get you where you want to go.”Tagged: Passion, Logic, Growth, Creativity
“Critically evaluating your life is supposed to facilitate living it, not the other way around.”Tagged: Analyzing, Over-analyzing, Life, Living, Taking Action
“The problems that are in front of you are actually behind you; they are cracks in your foundation that are holding you back. Stop trying to dismantle symptoms, go back and identify the causes.”Tagged: Life, Problems, The future, The Past, Perception
“Trying to make sense of your life is trying to see if the old story checks out, if the person you once were would be happy with the life they lead today. You're looking for answers in people that don't exist.”Tagged: Life, Reflection, Identity, The Past, self
“You should thank the people who hurt you most in life because those relationships didn't actually hurt you, they showed you an unhealed part of yourself, a part that was preventing you from being truly loved.”Tagged: Love, Growth, Pain, hurt, Breakups
“Most people don't change until not changing is the less comfortable option.”Tagged: Change, Growth, Personal Development, Comfort, Discomfort
“We are literally incapable of predicting an outcome that is out of the realm of what we've known previously. Rather than trying to seek 'better,' we seek 'the best of what we've known,' even if 'the best' is really just the solution to a problem we didn't need to create again.”Tagged: Self-Sabotage, Problems, Change, Growth, Personal Growth
“Everything in your life does one of three things: shows you to yourself, heals a part of yourself or lets you enjoy a part of yourself.”Tagged: Growth, Change, Personal Growth, Development