“It convinces you that you're 'ready.' People seem more prone to get into relationships once they've purged the 'bad side' from their systems.”Tagged: Casual Sex, Relationships, Sex
“One common regret is not playing the field enough before settling down. If that regret follows you into a marriage, it can get dangerous.”Tagged: Casual Sex, Regrets, Marriage
“Make sure, like your tongue, you control your saliva. Don't create river of slobber down your chins.”Tagged: Kissing, kiss, saliva, drool
“Tongue use can be great, or horrible. My buddy was dating a girl who continuously licked his face when they kissed. It led to them breaking up. Remember, it's a kiss, not a facial wash. No one likes to be attacked by a tongue, or have their entire mouth filled by someone's tongue. But a tongue used…”Tagged: Kissing, kiss, tongue, technique
“Don't try to control it, let it control you. A good kiss is powerful, so you should just let it grip you and go with it. The moment is broken if you try to control it.”Tagged: Kissing, kiss, Control
“If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.”Tagged: Cheating, Lies, Trust
“His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.”Tagged: Cheating, Guilt, Secrets, Friends
“You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough,…”Tagged: Cheating, talking, bragging
“We know women imagine other people during sex. So do guys. While I'm screaming her name, I may well be thinking of her hot sister, her best friend, my third-grade teacher, Smurfette...”Tagged: thoughts during sex, fantasizing, other women
“What if I miss? I've wondered, mid-thrust: What if I miss and hit a pelvic bone? I'd sustain major injury to myself and, depending on how hard I thrusted, I might even hurt her!”Tagged: thoughts during sex, thrusting, Mistakes, injuries
“How did I get here? I build a mental bread crumb trail up to the moment of triumph: What did I say/do over the last 24 hours? If I could find common steps between all the times I got laid, I'd have a reliable system.”Tagged: thoughts during sex, Questions, Happiness