“Using pillows or furniture to get the perfect position is a great way to go. Or you can have them sit on your face if your neck gets tired.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, pillows, Comfort
“Be clear with your partner that you’re totally into feedback in the moment. As in, ‘a little to the left,’ ‘harder’ or ‘keep doing that.’ Remember: harder is not always better. It depends entirely on the person, but don’t assume that hard and fast always wins the race ’til you hear it from your part…”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, Communication
“Mouths aren’t just for oral sex! They’re for talking, too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying things like, ‘Just FYI, I’ve never gone down on a vagina before.'”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, Honesty