/r/AskWomen

“Guy I was seeing for a month the second time we had sex insisted that we didn't use a condom... I was incredibly turned off and honestly it ruined it for me. Condoms are an absolute necessity for me, especially with someone who I wasn't exclusive with.”

— miniaturegiraffe, reddit.com

“A guy I'm seeing has been having trouble staying hard. I'll work at getting him hard and within those seconds it takes to get into position its soft again. I still very much enjoy my time with him because our sense of humor is similar and we've known each other forever. I can tell he's frustrated by…”

— whattoucantfind, reddit.com

“I just broke up with a guy I'd been seeing for almost a year, about a month ago. I cannot believe I was with this guy AT ALL, let alone for an entire year. He had poor hygiene (would pick his nose and eat his boogers, almost compulsively. Like, if we were watching a movie, he would be doing it the e…”

— burtra12, reddit.com

“I had been drooling over this really handsome guy for like a year or so. We never really hung out, but we did message from time to time. We finally hung out and it was actually pretty great! He's in a band and hot?! I felt like I was floating... for a second. Because I'm 28 and I know better. So, we…”

— milagrochan0404, reddit.com

“Guy I'd been dating for about the last 6 months dumped me via text on Monday to go back to his ex. I didn't even know she was still in the picture. Sadness ensued.”

— PeggyOlson225, reddit.com

“He sort of tried at the beginning like he was trying to make me have an orgasm, but then would just focus entirely on himself, never made me come first (never made me come at all, I had to do it myself). And he would 'borrow' things from my apartment without asking (still hasn't returned them). Pret…”

— sunnysidevegan, reddit.com

“Went out with a guy for a few weeks, and he would tell me about how he could make girls come 3 or 4 times within one session, blah blah. The last time we had sex, let's just say his dick spent a lot of time in places that didn't do anything for me. Never came, he didn't even try. Then a few days lat…”

— plscanunot, reddit.com

“OH MY GOD. I had a week between dates with this guy and we hadn't really been successful at sex the first time. We spent the week apart talking a bit about kinks/what we liked and he said some nasty shit to me that I really liked. Like spent a whole week working me up about what he was gonna do to m…”

— olivia928, reddit.com

“Pretty much the last 3 dates I've had off tinder. Specifically the last guy. He talked a big game about how good he was with girls and how he had sex everyday and had 2 girls that kept coming back to him. I'm not looking for anything serious so we hung out. He was awkward af and pretty dumb. I actua…”

— my-psyche, reddit.com

“He told me about his children that he hasn't seen in a year. And I actually thought he seemed like a super lovely person prior to that.”

— SnaquilleOatmeal, reddit.com

“This guy who lead with how great my ass was, then spent an hour bragging about his car and the house he bought his mother. So basically you want in my pants and think I only care about money? Fantastic.”

— theresaname, reddit.com

“It was several months ago. I had gotten out of a long term relationship a few months prior so I was just sort of looking to see what was out there. This guy that I met was absolutely terrible in bed. I actually never even had sex with him because the foreplay was a nightmare. He was fingering me and…”

— freeaccountant, reddit.com

“Contracting herpes from a guy who gave me mediocre oral sex and no PIV.”

— greentea14, reddit.com

“I didn't date the guy but we hooked up a few times, he was one of those 'my dick is big so I don't need technique' types. When he went down on me he literally spat on my vag, slobbered all over me, and then started fingering me like a jackhammer while asking if I was going to cum.”

— Korsola, reddit.com

“We went on a second date to the movie theater. The local theater offers free refills on their biggest size popcorn buckets. My date reached into a trashcan and pulled out a large bucket and got it refilled. I didn't eat any of the popcorn and he didn't get another date. Ugh.”

— Erin_woah, reddit.com

“It was at the tail end of the relationship with my ex, he really wanted to have sex and I just couldn't think about anything but breaking up with him. He threw a hissy fit (pouted, wouldn't let me touch him at all, took the blankets, made shitty comments) so I eventually relented. I figured it would…”

— ActualSquid, reddit.com