“Don't be too stiff and standoffish. Guys are often put off and uneasy about making the first move when the girl doesn't appear to be enjoying herself.”— Chelsea Hoffman, datingtips.match.com
“Instigate a conversation about making the first move. Conversation usually drifts to the topic of dating. Mentioning that you usually don't make the first move could stick in his memory and encourage him to accept the invitation.”— Chelsea Hoffman, datingtips.match.com
“Play with your hair while you're talking to each other. Twirling a strand or two with your fingers while your eyes meet his may send him the signal to make a move.”— Chelsea Hoffman, datingtips.match.com
“If you're feeling bolder, have a thumb war with him, and make a wager that loser has to give winner a kiss. Either way it's a win-win situation for you.”— Amberlee Lovell, familyshare.com
“Either while cuddling or chatting, turn and give him a kiss on the cheek. This should be a clear sign to him that it's time to make the move. Plus, your lips will already be right next to his making it really simple for him to just turn his head.”— Amberlee Lovell, familyshare.com
“Watching a movie helps you both slow down enough to relieve some of the stress that can come on the doorstep at the end of a date. Cuddling as you watch the movie will help him be comfortable enough to know you'd be alright with a little kiss goodnight.”— Amberlee Lovell, familyshare.com
“Make sure all of his senses are filled with you. Men are drawn to the clean fragrance of your hair, the light scent of your perfume, and the delightful freshness of your freshly showered skin.”— Nick Slade, datingadvice.com
“The more open and welcoming your body language, the more comfortable and natural he will be with you. If you seem threatened or threatening, that is likely to keep his lips at an arms distance. Smile, look at him, laugh, let go of all your tension, and just have fun. Then he will know he’s in a safe…”— Nick Slade, datingadvice.com
“Guys are pretty simple minded creatures. As long as you can make him feel like the strongest, most handsome, sexiest guy in the world, you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand.”— Valerie, enkivillage.com
“In order to get a guy’s attention, you have to be a flirtatious sexpot. You have to turn on your sexy giggle every time he says something even remotely funny, play with your hair, tease him a little bit, give him your best ‘come hither’ look, bite down your lower lip, unabashedly blush, and pretend…”— Valerie, enkivillage.com
“Good oral hygiene is an important aspect of life in general, especially when you’re trying to get a guy to kiss you! If your mouth smells rancid, there is no way he’s going to lean in for the kill. Always keep some mints in your purse to pop after eating or drinking anything. Avoid chewing gum thoug…”— Valerie, enkivillage.com
“I’ll ask him to walk me home, because it’s really far, I don’t want to go alone. He’ll obviously recognize this cue, and instead of coming home to me rocking in fetal position with an ‘OMG I don’t even know what happened tonight’ expression, my roommates will come home to see man feet sticking off t…”— Veronica Ruckh, totalsororitymove.com
“How to stop the cuddle sesh? Or at least just tease the shit out of him if that’s more your style.. the BUTT STRETCH. It’s not really so much of a stretch. More like a push. Very simple: Your butt, his man place, and pressure. It’s definitely the least subtle thing ever, but in my head when I’m doin…”— Veronica Ruckh, totalsororitymove.com
“A casual hand on a guy’s upper thigh is the best non-slutty way to make him very aware of his penis, and very aware of his desire for you to touch it.”— Veronica Ruckh, totalsororitymove.com
“Give him a sign you’re open for a kiss. At the end of the date lean in a little so he knows you’re ready for him to kiss you.”— Patti Stanger, pattiknows.com
“Look at his lips. Have you ever noticed that, right before a kiss, people stare at each other's lips? So if you want to be kissed, stare at his lips, not into his eyes. It's sexy, subtle way to tell him, 'Dude, it's time to plant one.'”— Joanna Goddard, glamour.com
“When you want to be kissed--say, at the end of a great date--slooooow down. Start speaking slower and let there be some pauses. Pauses are good! They help set the mood. Stand closer to him and talk softly. Basically, create that sexy scene.”— Joanna Goddard, glamour.com
“Linger at the end of the date and see where it takes you. He will know what you are waiting for to fill up that awkward space. He will either go for it, or he won’t.”— Elizabeth Stone, attracttheone.com
“Give him a hug at the end of the date. But hold for a minute or two, just to look in his eyes and let him know you had a great time. He’ll know what you want.”— Elizabeth Stone, attracttheone.com