“One almost sure-fire way to get a guy hard doesn’t even involve touching him. Many guys go wild when they see their loves, whether they’re female or male, touch themselves.”— Lyndsie Robinson, allwomenstalk.com
“Do you know how to please yourself? Do you know what you like, what you don’t like, what arouses you or what turns you off? You may want to spend some ‘alone time’ with yourself so that you can feel comfortable with your own sexuality. Having sex for the first time can be an intense experience leavi…”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“It's like banging a tennis ball against a brick wall, which can be fun. It can be fun, but It's not a game. What you want is a partner to return the ball.”— Eugene Levy, Jim's Dad, amazon.com
“Touch yourself. If you’re going to sext, you might as well get an orgasm out of it. That’s the entire point. So slip under your covers with a vibrator and his sexts.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“If you don't know how to please yourself, how do you expect someone else to succeed at it? If you don't experience sexual pleasure regularly, you are depriving yourself of a basic human need. Self-pleasuring is a way to get to know your body so that you can experience pleasure, release and be able t…”— Bonnie Gayle, yourtango.com
“Vagina Hugs: Your vagina needs love and attention. This does not always have to look like rocket ship orgasms. Vaginas like to be touched and held. Sometimes, simply holding and rocking is enough. Or gentle petting either with dry hands or with lubricant. Try that when you wake up in the morning or…”— Pamela Madsen, huffingtonpost.com
“Masturbate, obviously. If you can't get yourself off, then no one else will.”— Danielle Pryor, puckermob.com
“Virtual sex, no matter how realistic, was really nothing but glorified, computer-assisted masturbation.”— Ernest Cline, amazon.com
“I would argue that masturbation is the human animal's most important adaptation. The very cornerstone of our technological civilization. Our hands evolved to grip tools, all right—including our own. You see, thinkers, inventors, and scientists are usually geeks, and geeks have a harder time getting…”— Ernest Cline, amazon.com
“I always said masturbation was the only truly form of Safe Sex but with people masturbating in cars, no longer true.”— Dr. Ruth Westheimer, twitter.com
“Stress and anxiety are the most common reasons some women find it hard to climax. Don’t be afraid to pamper yourself so you can be fully relaxed during sexual activities, whether they’re with yourself or someone else. Get a massage, meditate, do yoga, or employ any other activities that help you get…”— Lyndsie Robinson, health.allwomenstalk.com
“Women will masturbate in all kinds of positions: lying down, sitting up, standing up or squatting. Women will also do any variety of things while masturbating: some might watch movies, videos or television, some listen to music or read a book, some talk to a partner on the phone, some look in a mirr…”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.com
“Women can and frequently do have orgasms without vaginal entry or penetration. In fact, it's more likely for most women to have orgasms without penetrative or vaginal sexual activities than it is for them to reach orgasm through vaginal entry or penetration alone.”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.com
“Turn on sexy music, slip on underwear you know you look hot in, read erotica or watch porn… Sure, it might feel forced at first, but the idea is to just do things that make you feel really, really turned on before starting to touch yourself.”— Mirel Ketchiff, shape.com
“If you feel comfortable, consider masturbating in front of your partner. This is a win-win. Lots of men think it’s hot to watch, and while you're taking care of yourself, he’ll be able to see what you really like—and might even pick up some pointers he can use later, when you’re having P-in-V sex.”— Mirel Ketchiff, shape.com
“Moving while you are getting turned on, and moving during orgasm can change the way you experience pleasure in your body. For some women this means rocking their pelvis. For others it means moving their legs or torso side to side. Find what movement works for you and then intentionally start doing i…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“Try different types of touch: stroke, tickle, knead, pinch, or lightly pull your genitals. Try using one or several fingers, the palm of your hand, even your knuckles.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com