“Have him masturbate beforehand. Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly.”— Frank, cosmopolitan.com
“If your vibrator has a point or an edge try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider ar…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“Warm up your erogenous zones with your own fingers. Not only will this smooth your transition to the more intense buzzing of a vibrator, but it will also re-familiarize you with your personal anatomy.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“If you want to add some variety to your sex life, why don't you just use your other hand?”— Cherise Sinclair, amazon.com
“If you’re really talented masturbate the other person or use a vibrator while you perform the rim job.”— Keeley Rankin, bettersexed.org
“Touch yourself. Men are extremely turned on by the fact that you are able to pleasure yourself all on your own.”— Kiley Coleman, love.allwomenstalk.com
“Do you have a specific way that you masturbate? Some women masturbate the exact same way every time, and actually wind up creating mental blockages to reaching orgasm with a partner (this happens a lot for men too, by the way). You may find yourself distracted because you’re critiquing his speed or…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Masturbating just to the brink — but not allowing yourself to peak — ensures that you'll be bursting at the orgasmic seams by the time your man walks through the door.”— Laura Gilbert, cosmopolitan.com
“Get into some mutual masturbation. Side-by-side. Not much is hotter than starting a hot night off with some mutual masturbation.”— Becky, thestir.cafemom.com
“Confession: Sometimes I can't help but touch myself when I think about you.”— Paired Life, pairedlife.com
“Have you been masturbating again? Because you don't have to tell me every time.”— Ari Graynor, Katie, amazon.com
“Ask him to show you with his own hands how he likes to pleasure himself. You can start just watching him, or put your hands over his, or move his hands away to follow his lead.”— Alice, goaskalice.columbia.edu
“Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with another woman using your imagination. This may sound like an overly simplistic piece of advice, but it can be quite useful.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Things that are not as cool to do alone: sleep, eat, drink, game, watch movies, have sex.”— Mistress, twitter.com