“To this day, I feel a fierce warmth for women that have the same disregard for the social conventions of sexual protocol as I do. I love it when I meet a woman and her sexuality is dancing across her face, so it's apparent that all we need to do is nod and find a cupboard.”— Russell Brand, amazon.com
“Then we fucked so that we could pretend that nothing hurtful had just happened.”— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com
“Then we fucked so that we could pretend that nothing hurtful had just happened.”— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com
“The clitoris is pure in purpose. It is the only organ in the body designed purely for pleasure. The clitoris is simply a bundle of nerves: 8000 nerve fibres, to be precise. That’s a higher concentration of nerve fibres than is found anywhere else in the body, including the fingertips, lips, and tong…”— Natalie Angier, amazon.com
“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”— Nenia Campbell, amazon.com
“Abstaining from sex, hitting the books, and wearing loose-fitting clothes are common ways that girls try to molt their "slutty" image. But more often their shame leads them to self-destructive behavior. They become willing to do things that they wouldn't have dreamed of doing before they were scanda…”— Leora Tanenbaum, amazon.com
“Women and girls masturbate in an endless list of ways. They may massage their clitoris and vulva with hands and fingers, or rub their vulva up against pillows, bed cloths, stuffed animals, and furniture. Some use water spray, vibrators, and dildos to stimulate their vulva and/or vagina...Some women…”— The-Clitoris.com, the-clitoris.com
“Rub, press, tap, stroke, and play with everything in that zone. Try using your fingers to slide the clitoral hood around over your clitoris, up and down, sideways, and in circles. Squeeze it, tap on it, or press hard on it with your fist. Probe inside your vagina or massage around the opening. Squee…”— Shakti Amarantha, quora.com
“In an informal survey of female masturbation habits conducted by the HealthyStrokes.com website—which bills itself as ‘a site about masturbation and you!’—some of the most frequently mentioned masturbatory objects, aside from dildos and vibrators, are candles, cucumbers, carrots, bananas, hairbrush…”— Carrie Borzillo, menshealth.com
“Another medium that seems to satisfy many women is flowing water. Many women masturbate by running the water in a bathtub, lying down in the tub, and placing their buttocks up against the end of the tub so the running water lands right on their clitorises. The temperature, strength of the flow, and…”— Sabine Walter, Pierre A. Lehu, dummies.com
“The best place to start is by stroking across your clitoris in a couple of different patterns (lube can make this feel even better!). Try diagonally, in a figure-eight, in a circle, up and down, and side to side. Each time you try a particular stroke, ask yourself, ‘does this feel good?’ The only ‘r…”— Vanessa Marin, afterhours.lifehacker.com
“Turn your boring shower on a morning into and exciting masturbation session and use the shower head and its different pressures to get yourself off!”— Lucy Moore, femalefirst.co.uk
“You might find you get more turned on by touching your clitoris rather than trying to put a finger inside your vagina. The clitoris is a sensitive bump up in front of the vaginal opening, covered with loose skin which separates to form the flaps that go down each side of the vaginal opening. The cli…”— Somazone, somazone.com.au
“The Featherlite is another technique that is best for those who have overly sensitive clits where direct and hard pressure can become painful. This technique applies the lightest pressure on the very edge of the clit using your finger.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Make Noise: Back in 2011, there was a study done at Temple University that found that at least 60 percent of women have faked an orgasm at some point — hardly a shocker, but their reasons why had more to do with themselves than appeasing their partners. One such reason was that making noise — mimick…”— Amelia McDonell-Parry, thefrisky.com
“To find your G-spot slide a finger into your vagina and bend it so it brushes the front wall. Reach back towards your cervix, then draw your finger along the front of your vagina. Your G-spot is the cluster of skin that stands out and when stimulated can produce an orgasm of very, very heightened in…”— The Editors at Cosmopolitan, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Get to know your body. Sit down with a mirror and play genital show- and-tell, a brilliant concept I learned at a bodysex workshop with iconic Sex for One author and sex educator Betty Dodson, aka the "Mother of Masturbation." When was the last time you sat down and took a good hard look at your pus…”— Charyn Pfeuffer, thestranger.com
“Create a fantasy. For more than a decade, I've fantasized about hooking up with a stranger in a bathroom stall. Like "hike up my skirt and slam me against the wall while you penetrate me from behind" kind of fucking. Preferably with some hair pulling. Sex with strangers is a common fantasy and far l…”— Charyn Pfeuffer, thestranger.com
“Porn is a wonderful thing — and that can mean anything from literotica to still images to video. If you're not into porn, you may just have not yet found porn you like. There is so much more out there than oily dudes jackhammering away at spray-tanned women (though there's also nothing wrong with ge…”— Hayley MacMillen, refinery29.com