“He just wants to have sex with you. And you? You want to have sex with him. So do it already. Enjoy it. Tell him what you want. Make him your momentary love slave. And after it's over? Make him sleep in the wet spot.”— Erin Dailey, marieclaire.com
“Toys can help. Nearly half of women between the ages of 18 and 60 have used a sex toy like a dildo or vibrator, according to a survey by Ashley Leonard at Robert Morris University. If you’ve had trouble reaching orgasm and want to climax, a vibrator (which stimulates the nerve endings in the clitori…”— Camille Noe Pagán, webmd.com
“There are tons of cool gadgets to help you masturbate. From hands-free vibrators to buzzing faux lip stick bottles, there’s a vibrator for every lady.”— Alanna Vagianos, huffingtonpost.com
“Lie down on your bed and use a mirror to look at your private and intimate places. Gently spread your labia: you may want to use a spot of lubrication There are very nice modern ones that increase the sensuousness of the occasion – such as Liquid Silk (£9.99). But if you don't have any lubrication,…”— Christine Webber, netdoctor.co.uk
“Set the mood: The kind of arousal you need is subjective, but one thing a woman needs is a calm, relaxing environment where she can simply unwind and think sexy thoughts. So try to set the mood, light some candles, draw a relaxing bath, play some sexy music and if you like, pick up an erotic novel.…”— Pavitra Sampath, thehealthsite.com
“I don’t think any girl masturbates when having a poo. It’d be very messy and gross.”— Anonymous Woman, metro.co.uk
“Go Slowly and Then Build Up Now that you’ve pulled out the porn and licked your finger, what’s next? Well, now you begin. Using the tip of your finger, make soft slow circles on the hood of your clitoris. See how that feels? Okay, now’s the time to explore. Try different things with your clit. Move…”— YouQueen, youqueen.com
“The Open-Faced Sandwich: This technique involves gently patting and pushing down on your whole vaginal area using the palm of your outstretched hand. It is quite a variation on direct stimulation methods as the stimulation is much broader focused. Keep your hand open and fingers outstretched. Long a…”— Pretty Lady Smiles, prettyladysmiles.com
“The Sandwich Cookie: This technique is much like delicious cookies sandwiching a cream filling. Your index and middle fingers serve as the delicious cookies here. Place your fingers on the outside and supporting both sides of your clitoris. While gently gripping your clitoris with your fingers, use…”— Pretty Lady Smiles, prettyladysmiles.com
“The first time I masturbated, it was actually unintentional. I was 11 years old and in a swimming pool with a friend. I didn't really get what happened but I became a really big fan of water afterwards. Showers, pools—basically all running water. Shower heads are definitely the way to go, but a few…”— Anonymous Woman, vice.com
“I'm a big fan of porn. I think that the Stoya films are amazing, for example. Most of the time I just watch short clips on PornHub, just because it's easy...In terms of categories, I'm into things that I don't actually do myself—like toys (I don't have any), lesbians (I'm into men), and threesomes (…”— Anonymous Woman, sex, vice.com
“Many women -- like many men -- fantasize while masturbating, to the idea of a partner, someone else, or various sexual scenarios. Many women have one or two methods they've discovered for themselves which are ways that -- for a substantial period of time -- they know will usually get them off quickl…”— Scarleteen, scarleteen.com
“The vagina is so confusing, but if you turn on a vibrator it is instant pleasure for almost every woman.”— Thea Halpin, birdeemag.com
“Women masturbate in a lot of different ways, but a lot of my clients have found it useful to get a sense of what the process tends to entail. In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across…”— Vanessa Marin, Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Circle Perk: If you love clitoral stimulation but find prolonged pressure a little too intense, try the Circle Perk to reap the benefits of all those nerve endings in your c-spot. To do this move, find a seated position that is comfortable and allows you access between your legs, and use your finger…”— Anna Borges, womenshealthmag.com
“Use lube. I don’t care if you get caught up in the moment. Before you stick your dick in her pussy, you get her wet, and before you stick it in her ass, you slather on lube. It’s not an option. It’s an order.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“I want a beer. I want a giant, ice-cold bottle of beer and shower sex.”— Nora Roberts, books.google.com
“Don’t go straight from thrusting into her ass to thrusting into her pussy. That can spread a shit-ton of germs. If she ends up with an infection, she’s never going to let you near her ass again.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com