30 Quotes Being Too Nice Might Be The Problem In Your Dating Life

“Simply put, niceness is boring and overrated. Girls who think that being ‘nice’ is something to aspire to are most likely setting themselves up for a life of mediocrity, boredom, and cats.”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“All we’re saying is that you should learn to be a girl who looks out for herself first and does not allow others to take advantage of her.”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“The nicegirl plays by the rules without ever questioning them. She’s dull, lacks depth, lets people walk all over her, yet brings nothing to the table. If she disappeared, you wouldn’t even notice. She’s the girl who rarely colors outside the lines of her life, and even then only in baby pink. She’s…”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“Nicegirls seldom make history.”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“If you find yourself caring about something, just remind yourself that you don’t need to give a fuck. Caring is for nicegirls.”

— The Betches, amazon.com

“Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect; you get what you demand from people.. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.”

— Tucker Max, amazon.com

“Guys will pull away just to see how you respond to it. If you go bat shit crazy they run for the hills...So for now let him go. I promise you he'll come back if you just stand still. Remember anything you chase runs further.”

— Kirsten Corley, facebook.com

“When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“If you want guys to take you seriously, you must get them to pick up the phone and call you.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Self-respect is a one-punch knockout to a guy. When you are confident enough to wield your power and you show that you aren’t fearful of losing him, he becomes fearful of losing you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“A ‘yes’ woman who gives too much sends the impression that she believes in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Insecurity is the root of weakness because it causes your dominant thoughts to be controlled by the fear of not being good enough.”

— G.L. Lambert, amazon.com

“Be nice to people, be kind, and be considerate all you want, but at the end of the day, never put someone else before you.”

— G.L. Lambert, amazon.com

“You deserve the affection that you kept trying to pour into others. You deserve the same motivation that you tried to inspire in others. You deserve the high of happy, without the low of sadness. You deserve the joy of being spoiled, without the catch of having to repay. You deserve the relaxation o…”

— G.L. Lambert, amazon.com

“CONFIDENCE IS SEXIER THAN ANY LINGERIE- Men already love your body as it is but when you're confident, it's even more of a turn on! Along those lines…lingerie is way overrated!”

— Benjamin Watson, shape.com

“When you are easily manipulated, he will assume he doesn’t have to give as much in the way of a commitment in order to keep you there.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men love knowing there’s a small part of you that they can’t get to.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your ‘all.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you he'll do the asking.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“No answer is your answer.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Classy is walking away with your head held high graciously with your dignity. Being a doormat is offering to drive him to the dentist for a root canal.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com