“It’s interesting to think about how we make people who used to be everything into nothing again. How we learn to forget. How we force forgetting. What we put in place of them in the interim. The dynamics afterward always tell you more than what the relationship did – grief is a faster teacher than…”
“We are all just waiting for another universe to collide with ours, to change what we can’t ourselves. To fill us, to make us whole. It’s interesting how afterwards, we realize that the storm returns to calm, but the stars are always changed and we don’t choose whose collisions change us.”Tagged: Waiting For The One, Universe, Align With Us
“We all start as strangers, but we often forget that we choose who ends up a stranger too.”Tagged: Stranger, People Morph
“If you take a second to write down the little, otherwise insignificant things in your day that made you happy or upset you, you’ll notice some pretty telling patterns about yourself.”Tagged: On Keeping A Journal, Diary, Diares, Patterns, Discover Who You Are
“You aren't letting go of a person, or a place, or even a thing – you're letting go of your thoughts about it, or what it would be. And learning how to let go of your thoughts is the most powerful thing there is. It's how you get over fear, loss, panic, pain, judgment, and all the rest. Everything…”Tagged: The Art of Awareness, How To Think
“The silence between the notes makes the music. And lest we forget, the longer the silence, the more incredibly beautiful and powerful the music when it finally swells and the symphony goes on.”Tagged: Life, Change
“The most symptomatic challenge we face in our daily lives is trying to mentally bridge the gaps between our coexisting truths.”Tagged: Truth, first lines of books
“Getting the fuck over it does not mean you ignore your feelings. They are not the same thing. Getting the fuck over it means I see you, emotion that could have the power to devastate me and paralyze me for the day, or week, or year. And I am choosing to put my energy elsewhere. It does not mean you…”Tagged: The Art of Awareness, How To Think, Psychology, Philosophy
“When a Leo is falling in love, they’re as charismatic as ever, but they’re also looking for someone with whom they can share the life they love so much.”Tagged: Leos, Horoscope, Zodiac, Falling In Love, Partners
“You do not need to schedule your hours, you need to schedule your attention. It is your energy, not your time, that is limited each day.”
“You may not see it today or tomorrow, but you will look back in a few years and be absolutely perplexed and awed by how every little thing added up and brought you somewhere wonderful– or where you always wanted to be. You will be grateful that things didn’t work out the way you once wanted them to.”
“There will come a time in your life in which you realize your old ways cannot carry you any longer. You will know that it is time to set fire to the past, and shed your old self. When the heaviness slows you to a stop, a reinvention must occur.”Tagged: Moving On, reinvention
“What if you've already received everything you've ever wanted, but you've been so focused ahead that you haven't even noticed?”Tagged: Deep, thought provoking
“To everyone who is pursuing the life of their dreams: keep going. There is no path that comes without some friction. There is nothing you can do that will not challenge you and change you”Tagged: Inspirational
“Things are very often not quite what they seem. Losses are often the most important turning points, pain often the most effective teacher, fear the most poignant informant for what we really care about.”Tagged: Pain, Growth, Moving Forward
“Be willing to see the impossible change. Consider things you never have before. Blow the lid off your life.”Tagged: Inspirational, Change, Self-improvement, Optimism
“If you want to believe human beings weren’t built for monogamy, that’s fine, but it’s a small way to look at it. We also weren’t built to eat at tables or work routinely or refine our minds or wear clothes. We do these things to have a higher quality of life. Freedom is not the ability to act on…”Tagged: Relationships
“There is a difference between 'committing to the right person while you're young' and 'settling for someone while you're young out of obligation or fear or both.'”Tagged: Standards, Settling, Love, Fear, Obligation
“Sure, as human beings, we all inherently deserve love and respect and kindness, but we don't all get it (and we sure as hell don't all give it). That means you have to take it for yourself. You have to draw your own lines and write your own rules.”Tagged: Standards, Love, kindness, Expectations