“I was starting to understand that nothing in this life is owed to me and that it's quite possible to sabotage yourself if you don't pay attention.”
“College is about figuring out who you are, and in order to do that, you need to become a lot of people you aren’t.”Tagged: Personality, Self-Actualization, College, Identity, Experimentation
“There are so many people in this world who make you feel like an alien. When you find someone who "gets it," you don't take it for granted.”Tagged: Friendship, Relationships, People, Love
“Getting angry at the world for your problems isn't going to bring you any closer to a dream job or relationship or whatever else you feel like you deserve. It's going to keep you thousands of miles away from it.”Tagged: Anger, Life, Growth, Relationships, Jobs
“You can try on different personalities like they're clothing for as long as you want, but I guarantee that the outfit you were originally wearing will always be the one that fits best.”Tagged: Personality, Self-Acceptance, Growing Up
“Having self-love is like nurturing a plant. If you don't take the time to water it, if you start to skip days and get distracted, it will die.”Tagged: Self-Love, Growth, Persistence
“We’re best friends because you make feel less alone in this psycho, flaky world. It’s amazing how often you can feel disconnected from people. It’s amazing how many people can betray you, or fail to understand the words that are coming out of your mouth. When I see you, it’s a burst of reassurance…”Tagged: Friendship, Best Friends, Friends
“You’re my best friend because you’re not afraid to call me out on my crap or disagree with me. I can’t get away with anything when I’m with you. You’ll tell me things that I need to hear but everyone else is too afraid to tell me. Your honesty is so damn refreshing albeit a bitter pill to swallow…”Tagged: Best Friends, Why I Love You
“When you’re in your 20s, you change. A lot. I know this sounds ridiculous, but like I’m 26 and whenever I meet someone who’s 22 or 23 — even if I love them — I’m just like, “Go back into the oven because you aren’t done yet.” Three years do make a major difference in your 20s because every year is…”Tagged: Love, Relationships, Change, Growing Up, Falling In Love
“If you’re fortunate enough, you will find a person who sees this world in the exact same way that you do.”Tagged: Friendship, Life, Friends, Love
“Life is so messy and difficult. The best you can really hope for is that you have a friend who anchors you and makes you feel safe. It helps if this friend has really great hair too.”Tagged: Friendship, Love, Best Friends, Friends
“Somebody loves you if they don’t mind the quiet. They don’t mind running errands with you or cleaning your apartment while blasting some annoying music. There’s no pressure, no need to fill the silences.”Tagged: Love, Silence, H4D-15
“Somebody loves you if they can order you food without having to be told what you want. Somebody loves you if they rub your back at any given moment. Somebody loves you if they give you oral sex without expecting anything back. Somebody loves you if they don't care about your job or how much money…”Tagged: Love
“Somebody loves you if they want you to be happy, even if that involves something that doesn't benefit them.”Tagged: Love
“It's a damn dream when you find someone you can do nothing with. Whether you're skydiving together or sitting at home and doing different things, it's always comfortable. That is fucking love.”Tagged: Love
“Somebody loves you if they don't mind the quiet. They don't mind running errands with you or cleaning your apartment while blasting some annoying music. There's no pressure, no need to fill the silences.”Tagged: Love
“Somebody loves you if they call you out on your bullshit. They’re not passive, they don’t just let you get away with murder. They know you well enough and care about you enough to ask you to chill out, to bust your balls, to tell you to stop. They aren’t passive observers in your life, they are in…”Tagged: Love, Friendship
“Somebody loves you if they assume the role of caretaker when you’re sick. Unsure if someone really gives a shit about you? Fake a case of food poisoning and text them being like, ‘oh my god, so sick. need water.’ Depending on their response, you’ll know whether or not they REALLY love you. ‘That’s…”Tagged: Love, Friendship, Sick
“Somebody loves you if they assume the role of caretaker when you’re sick. Unsure if someone really gives a shit about you? Fake a case of food poisoning and text them being like, ‘Oh, my God, so sick. Need water.’ Depending on their response, you’ll know whether or not they REALLY love you. ‘That’s…”Tagged: Love, Sick, Acts Of Service
“Somebody loves you if they don’t mind the quiet. They don’t mind running errands with you or cleaning your apartment while blasting some annoying music. There’s no pressure, no need to fill the silences. It’s a damn dream when you find someone you can do nothing with. Whether you’re skydiving…”Tagged: Love, Relationships, Quality Time, Doing Nothing Together