“Would you rather lose your sex organs forever or gain 200lbs for the rest of your life?”— Chrissy Stockton, thoughtcatalog.com
“You need constant relationship status updates. 'What are we?' 'Where is this going?' If you are asking for weekly relationship updates, you're going to drive your partner away.”— Drew Schroeder, familyshare.com
“Needing to know every detail of his/her day. As relationships grow you learn more and more about the other person; what they like, who they hang out with, where they go regularly. This should be a natural process that develops over time. When you demand to know all of these details up front it can m…”— Amber Lewter, rscounselingatlanta.com
“Ask him questions about himself - his dreams, his likes, his fears, what his day is like etc. Throw in some hints there that make it obvious to him that you're interested in getting to know him in a 'more than hanging out' friend way.”— Yangki Akiteng, torontosnumber1datedoctor.com
“If you have mutual friends, your ex might be asking them about you. If they’re looking to hear about how you’re doing without them, they’re still interested.”— Jessica Simien, jessicasimien.com
“Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up; if not, I'll stay down here till I'm someone else.”— Lewis Carroll, amazon.com
“You are literally always questioning, 'Is this even worth it?'”— Kate Rutherford, theodysseyonline.com
“Your life is an unanswered question. Your partner has no idea who you really are and you don’t know much about them, either. If you were on your way to a legitimate relationship, you should have been learning more about your partner and not begging for scraps of information.”— Danielle Anne, lovepanky.com
“Before you get into bed with someone, be sure that you have a clear idea of what the sex will mean for your relationship with that person. Is this going to be a one-time hookup? Is this a casual, but potentially ongoing thing? Is this the start of an LTR? Does sleeping together automatically mean yo…”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.com
“We formulate our questions based on the answers we want to hear.”— Thomas L. Moran, Dr. Gregory House, Hugh Laurie, amazon.com
“Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.”— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com
“What is she thinking about? Believe it or not, most guys are thinking about what you’re thinking about.”— Cliche Wynter, wewomen.com
“How did I get here? I build a mental bread crumb trail up to the moment of triumph: What did I say/do over the last 24 hours? If I could find common steps between all the times I got laid, I'd have a reliable system.”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.com
“I want to know you. You seem like someone worth knowing. Every day I feel like I’m surrounded by people with hard edges and sour faces but I get the sense that you’re different. Too often people seem to think that they have the answers to everything. Their faces are trapped in permascowls and they c…”— Ryan O'Connell, thoughtcatalog.com
“Asking him for help will make him feel like a big tough guy that can take care of you-- think of it as him being the Superman to your Lois Lane.”— Michelle Keldgord, herinterest.com
“Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.”— Holly Ashworth, teenadvice.about.com