“I just feel like the amount of time I spent trying to massage this relationship I could have learned the clarinet.”— Thomas Ward, Liz Doran, Hannah Gadsby, Josh Thomas, Josh, Josh Thomas, imdb.com
“Shift the focus from intercourse to foreplay and pleasurable bedroom activities like massage and oral sex.”— Diana Bradley, beyondtalk.net
“If stress is a major distraction from your love life, utilize tools to help the body unwind. Massage, exercise and adequate rest are powerful against stress.”— Pure Health MD, health.howstuffworks.com
“The scalp is a very powerful male erogenous zone. Not only that, but you can touch, massage and scratch his scalp pretty much anywhere in public without it seeming weird.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“A back rub can loosen the tension and make that stress run right out of him. Back rubs should become a regular type of touch as it will relax your man and allow him to be free (mentally and emotionally) to engage with you.”— Jackie Bledsoe, babble.com
“Giving a foot massage to your guy will not only turn him on but will also show how much you care about him. Foot massages are a great balance of erotic and romantic.”— iDiva, idiva.com
“The butt is one of the most sensitive and highly ignored areas. Arouse him with a little smack when he is least expecting it. Pro tip: Massage his butt when you’re going down on him.”— iDiva, idiva.com
“A massage before sex accompanied with conversation about the task at hand can help put his mind at ease. Whisper to him the things you would like to see happen when the erotic play does begin and speak positive affirmations to him that gives him the confidence he needs to satisfy you. Adding in arom…”— Glamazon Tyomi, jadinbest.wordpress.com
“Pulse settings give you a bit of a contrast. It’s essentially a clitoral massage, and exploring these massage settings means even more excuses to lock yourself in your bedroom with some loud music and a hard-drive full of porn.”— The Debrief, thedebrief.co.uk
“Book his-and-her massages. Having warm oil massaged into your body is surely a treat. If your relationship hasn’t moved in that direction yet, book Swedish massages for the two of you in separate rooms, so you both can enjoy the experience and compare notes afterwards and say hello to relaxation.”— Julie Spira, huffingtonpost.com
“If you are curious about anal play but find rim jobs intimidating, you may want to start with fingering, anal massage, or using butt plugs.”— Keeley Rankin, bettersexed.org
“Massage and squeeze them together. Tap or smack the cheeks depending on the guy's preference. He may even like to be spanked. Be sure you vary all your hand techniques to heighten his sexual anticipation.”— Mark Lazer, literotica.com
“Take it slow. Some recipients enjoy having their partner plunge into analingus. But unless they specifically request it, you should approach this highly sensitive area slowly. Massage, kiss, and lick the person's lower back, thighs, hips, and buttocks as you slowly work your way towards his or her a…”— My Pleasure, mypleasure.com
“Press your flattened tongue against the opening and hold it, then slowly start to move it in up and down or an in and out massage.”— Tiny Nibbles, tinynibbles.com
“After everything has been rinsed and razored, lay your lover down on their stomach, and begin to massage their bum cheeks. After a while, start gently pulling the buttocks apart so the anus is exposed and your fingers are gradually getting closer to it.”— Alix Fox, thedebrief.co.uk
“A back rub can loosen the tension and make that stress run right out of him. Back rubs should become a regular type of touch as it will relax your man and allow him to be free (mentally and emotionally) to engage with you.”— Jackie Bledsoe, babble.com
“Rolling pin: Run this baker's basic over his back and thighs during an erotic massage.”— Jennifer Benjamin, cosmopolitan.com
“Walk around in your lingerie, soak in a tub, or get a massage. When you give yourself this extra time, you will reconnect with your inner sensuality and hubbie, and that leads to major bow chica wow wow sex.”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.com
“Rub his feet. Instead of massaging his back, try massaging his feet. If he spent the whole day walking around, he'll need it.”— Holly Riordan, love.allwomenstalk.com