27 Expert Dating Tips Which Will Change Your Game Forever

“Your number one enemy when trying to build a meaningful and powerful relationship with an amazing woman is going to be your insecurities.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“A man will only fuck you over if you let him.”

— G.L. Lambert, amazon.com

“Men appreciate women who value themselves, because it generally means that those women are happy with who they are and place a premium on their self-worth.”

— Steve Harvey, amazon.com

“My mom always used to say, ‘You can’t say I love you before you can say I.’ And I think that sort of makes sense.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“Part of being mysterious is learning not to make yourself available all the time.”

— Rachel Rose, amazon.com

“Men truly want an emotional experience with a great woman, and he can only enjoy this level of intimacy when a woman is vulnerable with him.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Jumping too quickly into things is toxic. You might like him. You might even think he's the one. But you gotta let him take control at the start. And let him make the moves. Trust me, if you let this happen and let him lead the way, he's gonna fall for you. And once he does you got him. And once you…”

— Kirsten Corley, facebook.com

“Never risk your self-respect by trying to force a man to take an interest in you. It is better to disregard a man who displays a wavering interest than to lose both your dignity and sanity fighting for his attention.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“A man will commit when the thought of you meeting other men becomes unbearable. He knows within a year if he wants to marry you.”

— Cat Volz, amazon.com

“Being authentic is very sexy, it means you are true to your feelings and at the same time you don’t blame. You are making your man feel like you’re real and he doesn’t have to go through that horrible game of you saying it’s all good and then blowing up when you can’t take it anymore.”

— Felicia Vine, amazon.com

“And by the way, if you have to ask where you stand in a relationship that is a big, flashing neon warning sign that there is no relationship!”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“If you want guys to take you seriously, you must get them to pick up the phone and call you.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“If he hasn’t been treating you the way you deserve or want to be treated… let him go. Don’t allow your emotions to put you into a position to be used or hurt.”

— Kara King, amazon.com

“And to get this deeply emotional and intimate connection you have to be willing to be more vulnerable with the men who prove themselves both trustworthy and worth your attention.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Self-respect is a one-punch knockout to a guy. When you are confident enough to wield your power and you show that you aren’t fearful of losing him, he becomes fearful of losing you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The guy who deserves you will know and understand how valuable you are, and he’ll work hard not to lose you.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“It’s much easier to meet a quality guy in person when you’re not blacked out. If you can’t have a few drinks without losing your right contact lens and left shoe, try meeting guys through some sober activities that you enjoy.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“A big mistake insecure women make in the early stages of dating is trying to sell themselves to a guy. This can be completely innocent, but it comes from a deeper sense of insecurity and inadequacy.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Men for the most part like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect; you get what you demand from people.. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.”

— Tucker Max, amazon.com

“If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.”

— THE EDITORS OF MEN'S HEALTH, menshealth.com

“While I don’t advocate chasing or pursuing a man, there’s nothing wrong with initiating contact.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Men love it when you want them; they hate it when you need them.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“There are two types of attraction when it comes to men: sexual attraction and emotional attraction. Sexual attraction signifies that he wants you and your body. He wants to be inside you. Emotional attraction means that he wants to be with you, be around you, hang out with you. The perfect relations…”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“Compete only with yourself, being the best you can be, and you will find comfort and serenity that others will see as confidence and that will keep you calm and focused — all of which are incredibly attractive characteristics.”

— Joy Browne, amazon.com

“The right woman is that one woman who can make us want to commit to her. She’s the woman that just ‘gets us’ and by being seductively subtle, she can make even the most unattainable man fall in love with her. There’s no one trick or tactic that will escalate things with a man on an emotional level.…”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com