“Most of the men I’ve talked to have said that too much teasing and tickling in the crotch region feels uncomfortable. Spending lots of time kissing is great, but when you’re ready to give a hand job, my recommendation is to jump right into it. Wrap your hand around the shaft without wasting any time…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, teasing, Shaft
“Use finesse. I recommend also being creative and having fun. The more fun you’re having, the more fun he’ll be having.”— Your Tango, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, Creative, Fun, Finesse
“Pay attention to what’s going on for him. Is he making happy noises? Is he moving his body? You can also solicit simple feedback ("You like?" or "You want more?"), although too much talking or too many questions can get distracting.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.comTagged: Hand Job, Listen, pay attention, Feedback
“Using your fingertips, tap up and down along the underneath side of his shaft.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Hand Job, Shaft, tapping, gentle
“Handjobs aren’t meant to be given when you’re in bed together. They work best when you’re casually watching TV, so he’ll feel like he got a special little surprise. (Of course, if you want to make him cum faster, you could always turn off the TV and put on a porno.)”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, casual, Porn
“One thing you want to think about is position. In the shower (or the kitchen or on the couch), coming at him from behind is a good way to start. If it’s too uncomfortable because he’s bigger than you and you can’t really reach all the way around, try having him lay down and then get between his legs…”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.comTagged: Hand Job, positioning, Behind
“Even if you’re not in the mood to lick and suck, you can still use your mouth to catch his cum when he’s all finished. Seeing you swallow is the perfect way to end the occasion.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, swallow, licking, sucking
“A nice way to work his balls is to place them in your palm and gently roll them around as if they’re — not the greatest visual, but — a pair of eggs. The closer he gets to orgasm, try tugging on them as you would snatching a grape from a vine.”— Bobby Box, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, balls, Tugging, gentle
“Try running one or two fingers up and down the length of his penis. Using the middle three fingers on both hands, gently press at the base of the penis, moving your hands around the circle like the face of a clock.”— Your Tango, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, fingers, penis, pressure
“The most common position is where he sits in a chair and you are positioned in front of him on your knees. Make sure that your knees can handle it. If not, get yourself a couple pillows or something soft to put underneath you.”— Steve Daugherty, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, Position, knees, pillows
“Make sure you're in a position that is comfortable for you. Lying on your side facing your man, or sitting on his legs are some options.”— Alice, goaskalice.columbia.eduTagged: Hand Job, Position, comfortable
“You can stroke around his anus. Or you can use the other hand to touch his chest, thighs, or anywhere on his body.”— Dr. Sari Locker, sarilocker.comTagged: Hand Job, Anus, chest, thighs
“Make sure a towel or two are close by. Things can get really messy.”— Marriage Bed Tips, marriagebed.tipsTagged: Hand Job, towel, cleaning, Messy
“Pull the balls down. If you pull them away from the body (gently) just before he comes, it helps him do it even faster.”— Breonna Rodriguez, vivala.comTagged: Hand Job, balls, gentle, orgasm
“Wrap two hands around your partner's mandingo (yes, we just said mandingo) and slowly, yet rhythmically, twist both hands in opposite directions, as well as up and down. He'll feel like more than one person is touching his penosh -- which he'll think is hot.”— The Nest, thenest.comTagged: Hand Job, Direction, hands
“Your job is to have some fun with it, and keep in mind that it’s a sensitive organ that is attached to other pleasure spots nearby… For instance, his inner thighs… don‘t forget to rub and stroke them too! And his ass, which is perfect for some rough grabbing and squeezing to work up your own sexual…”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, thighs, butt, Sensitive
“There is such a thing as too tight. I mean, you don’t want to stop the blood flow to the poor little carpet snake.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, pressure, tight, Careful
“Maintaining a tight connection between you and your partner throughout can exponentially increase their satisfaction. Whether it’s making eye contact, allowing yourself to make noises, or touching other parts of his body with a free hand, anything you can do to attune yourself to his experience will…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.comTagged: Hand Job, Eye Contact, Connection, Intimacy
“Try sitting cross-legged between his legs, while he lies flat on his back. Or have him drape his legs over the side of the bed, while you kneel on the floor between his feet.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, Position, positioning
“Slowly and lightly move your hand up and down his joystick to rev him up.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Hand Job, Movement, penis