“Before you go anywhere near his cock, make sure you get him nice and hard. French kiss him, grab his hair to deepen that kiss, and stroke his thighs–but wait to touch that sweet spot.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, foreplay, hard, turned on
“You can either let him ejaculate on his own body, on your body, on a piece of clothing, on the sheets, or on a tissue or rag. You're in charge, so it's your call.”— Dr. Sari Locker, sarilocker.comTagged: Hand Job, Ejaculate, orgasm
“Ask him to show you with his own hands how he likes to pleasure himself. You can start just watching him, or put your hands over his, or move his hands away to follow his lead.”— Alice, goaskalice.columbia.eduTagged: Hand Job, masturbation, Example, Communication
“Use more pressure. A lot of women don’t realize just how sturdy the male penis is. They tend to treat it daintily, as if it might break off in their hands. It should come as no surprise that this makes for a pretty boring hand job! Instead, grip the penis firmly in your hand, and keep a tight hold a…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, pressure, Grip, penis
“Draw small circles around his head with your thumb.”— Breonna Rodriguez, vivala.comTagged: Hand Job, Head, Thumb, circles
“Experiment with different angles. Most women tend to hold a penis at a 90 degree angle from his body, but going a bit more toward his belly will tend to keep it harder, and going a bit more toward his thighs may make it soften up.”— Your Tango, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, angles, Position, penis
“The worst thing a woman can possibly do in the bedroom is appear completely disinterested in what's going on. This may make a man feel insecure about himself, and ultimately opt for porn. Even if a hand job isn’t your favorite thing to do, don’t let him see that that’s the case.”— Bobby Box, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, Enthusiasm, Boredom, Passion
“Have him lay on his stomach, and start massaging his upper back, his shoulders, his legs and finally his derriere. Use lubricant if you are doing deep tissue massage. After massaging his back areas, have him turn over and start massaging his feet, then his upper thighs, maybe his arms and then final…”— Steve Daugherty, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, massage, lube, foreplay
“Don’t forget to give your husband a great view of your breasts while giving him a handjob. Wear a sexy top, or nothing at all! He’ll really appreciate that.”— Marriage Bed Tips, marriagebed.tipsTagged: Hand Job, Eye Candy, Naked, cleavage
“Using a lubricant is always a good idea — it really just feels better. You don’t want too hurt him with too much friction.”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.comTagged: Hand Job, lube, Friction
“Try to maintain eye contact throughout -- unless you're making out. Then we'll give you permission to close your eyes, so as not to creep your partner out.”— The Nest, thenest.comTagged: Hand Job, Eye Contact, Kissing, Making Out
“Don’t forget his balls! Balls like to be fondled, tickled, gently scratched and massaged. They are very sensitive to touch and can add a whole new level of pleasure to a hand job.”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, balls, massage, Tickled
“Don’t assume that because editorials tell us that all men have better orgasms if they’re asses are played with that all men will be open to you touching his anus or perineum (the space between his butt and balls). If you want to test your limits down there, slowly work your way down toward that area…”— Bobby Box, bustle.comTagged: Hand Job, butt, balls, anal
“For many people, pleasure continues after orgasm. If your partner likes, you can continue touching his penis, testicles, or other places on his body to help the moment linger.”— Alice, goaskalice.columbia.eduTagged: Hand Job, orgasm, penis, testicles
“Seductively remove his jeans. Make a show out of unzipping them and pulling them off. Think of it as a reverse strip tease.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, Stripping, Undress, seductive
“Don't go too fast. This makes no sense to me, because a guy will stick his dick in you and pump you like its a race to create a new world record for thrusts per second, but he won’t like it when you wank him off at the same speed.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, speed, Fast
“It's okay if you want to masturbate yourself at the same time. Pleasuring yourself while you're giving him a hand job can be twice the turn-on.”— Dr. Sari Locker, sarilocker.comTagged: Hand Job, masturbate, touch yourself, turn-on
“You may want it to end when you’re both ready to have another kind of sex, or you may want it to end with an orgasm and ejaculation.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.comTagged: Hand Job, foreplay, Sex, orgasm
“If the girl initiates the act, it shows that she wants to do it, for her own pleasure as well as his – and that is sexy!”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, initiate, Pleasure, forward
“When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot his load everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, pressure, slow, orgasm
“But if you’re guy is not circumcised, it can be a little harder to to get the proper stroke going. You’re going to have to move the foreskin back and forth with the movement of your hand.”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.comTagged: Hand Job, Foreskin, Stroking
“Your hands should be sliding, not rubbing.”— The Nest, thenest.comTagged: Hand Job, Sliding, rubbing
“Take off any rings or bracelets you’re wearing. They get in the way and feel like rough spots to your husband.”— Marriage Bed Tips, marriagebed.tipsTagged: Hand Job, Rings, jewelry, Bracelets
“Midway through your hand job, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down toward his testicles. Now, start to slowly and softly fondle them between your fingers. You can also cup them in your hand and gently squeeze them, too.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, testicles, balls, Squeeze
“A very easy way to change things up when jerking him off is to alternate between using one hand and using two hands on him. When you do this, you'll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis. You'll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.comTagged: Hand Job, hands, stimulation
“Be confident. You have to step up to the plate knowing you’re gonna knock it out the park!”— Breonna Rodriguez, vivala.comTagged: Hand Job, Confidence, Optimism
“The best thing for a man is to have a woman who is both enthusiastic about it and knows what she is doing.”— Steve Daugherty, youqueen.comTagged: Hand Job, Enthusiastic, Passion
“Don’t forget to twist your wrist as you move your hand. Simple ‘up and down’ movements aren’t going to cut it.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, Twist, Movement
“When you’re hand to knob with a circumcised penis, spit on your hand. There’s nothing worse than trying to give a dry handjob where there are no moving parts to help you.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Hand Job, Spit, lube
“Gently squeeze the base and middle of his penis in a pulsing motion, and then lightly pinch the skin on the underside of his penis.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Hand Job, Pulsing, Squeeze, Pinch