“Almost every time a guy has tried to initiate sex with me, it’s either been so awkward, uncomfortable, and crass that it feels like a scene written for Jonah Hill in a Seth Rogen movie, or way too subtle for it to even count—no, lightly rubbing my back as we fall asleep is not clear code for 'let’s…”Tagged: Initiating Sex, Sex
“Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. But, as a reminder, “no talking” does not mean 'no consent.' You should still be checking in with your partner that they are down for what you’re doing.”Tagged: Sex, Consent, NSFW
“If you sit someone down and tell them solemnly that you want to propose something to them, and then that something is access to your dick, not only are they probably going to say no, but now you’ve made it weird.”Tagged: friends with benefits, Casual Sex, Sex, Sex and Love
“Being a virgin later in life can be, perhaps above all things, an incredibly isolating experience. Not only is it a highly stigmatizing label—only reinforced by media tropes that suggest that older virgins are merely punchlines—it’s also rarely discussed openly, honestly, or with any level of…”Tagged: Virgins, Sex
“A cursory Google search will attest to the fact that I’m far from alone when it comes to my proclivity for Horny Sundays. As to the reason so many of us are jonesing on the last day of the weekend, the theories are far ranging. Some suggested boredom, or a general desire for relaxation, as a factor.…”Tagged: dating apps, Sex