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7 Ways To Not Seem Desperate (When You Sorta Are)

- Gurl.com

by http://www.gurl.com/2011/12/31/7-ways-not-to-seem-desperate/#ixzz4Q6wWaMKs

(3 total)

“The fastest way to seem desperate is to not have a life. If all you talk about is who you used to date, why you broke up and who you’re going to date next, you probably come across as desperate. Why not join a new club, get that job you always wanted or take up a new sport instead?”

— Abiola Abrams, gurl.com

Tagged: Desperate, Exes, Dating, Hobbies

“Don't rip down anyone else to impress a guy or to feel better about yourself. Being catty and bitchy is a false high. The temporary boost you might get wears off and then there’s just you with your low self-esteem again.”

— Abiola Abrams, gurl.com

Tagged: Desperate, Catty, other women, comparison

“Don’t pretend to be someone else just to get attention. Dress the way you want to be treated. Your look is part of your self-expression, not a billboard to scream your latest crisis. Give yourself a makeover to signal your new life but to thine own fabulosity be true.”

— Abiola Abrams, gurl.com

Tagged: Desperate, dressing, Be yourself, Makeover