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Abiola Abrams

4 quotesAuthor · Born Jul 29, 1976 · American · Female

Abiola Abrams (born July 29, 1976) is an American TV host, Internet personality, personal coach, motivational speaker and author. Her advice columns on topics such as relationships and self-worth include Intimacy Intervention on Essence.com and Abiola’s Love Class on MommyNoire.com. She is the author of the self-esteem advice guide The Official Bombshell Handbook: The 13 Sacred Secrets of Feminine Power and Dare, a love story retelling of Faust set in the hip hop world. Abrams is also the creator of a lifestyle blog and web video series at AbiolaTV.com. 2Early life and education She is a first generation Guyanese-American who was raised in New York City. Abrams attended the Brearley School. She earned a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree from Sarah Lawrence College and a Master of Fine Arts degree from Vermont College of Fine Arts. Abrams is a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority. She was a featured speaker at Alycia Kaback's NYC Women's Empowerment Summit. Abrams is a certified life coac

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From “7 Ways To Not Seem Desperate (When You Sorta Are)”

The fastest way to seem desperate is to not have a life. If all you talk about is who you used to date, why you broke up and who you’re going to date next, you probably come across as desperate. Why not join a new club, get that job you always wanted or take up a new sport instead?

Desperate Exes Dating Hobbies

Don't rip down anyone else to impress a guy or to feel better about yourself. Being catty and bitchy is a false high. The temporary boost you might get wears off and then there’s just you with your low self-esteem again.

Desperate Catty other women comparison

Don’t pretend to be someone else just to get attention. Dress the way you want to be treated. Your look is part of your self-expression, not a billboard to scream your latest crisis. Give yourself a makeover to signal your new life but to thine own fabulosity be true.

Desperate dressing Be yourself Makeover

From “The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love”

I am still bullied occasionally. However, none of my current bullies really exist. They’re all in my head. Be your own best friend instead of your worst enemy.

Self-hatred bullies Best friend enemies

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