“A casual hand on a guy’s upper thigh is the best non-slutty way to make him very aware of his penis, and very aware of his desire for you to touch it.”— Veronica Ruckh, totalsororitymove.com
“Ignoring the REST of his body. While it may seem that the only part of a man’s body that needs pleasing is between his legs, men have other erogenous zones as well – and he wants you to pay extra attention to them.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“Let me be real with you: your first time is probably going to be short (if there’s a penis involved), a little awkward, and not particularly fantastic. It will feel like there are an awful lot of limbs involved and no good place to put any of them.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“Make sure you are paying close attention to where he is placing both of his hands at all times. It’s more common that when a guy likes a girl, he will place his fingers through his belt loops or hook a finger on his waistband. He may also place his hands on his lap a lot or put them in his pockets.…”— Jasmine Spoors, herinterest.com
“'Am I hard?' Nothing says a confident lover like constantly worrying about your own state of arousal. Call me crazy, but I don’t remember any adult film where the lady is calling out for her man who is unable to please her.”— Alex Keobke, therichest.com
“He has big hands. Because even if the rumors aren’t true… at least he’ll be able to put them to good use.”— Sarah Buchanan, dailystar.co.uk
“I could probably talk penis size 24/7/365 and still not get through some thick skulls. It's all your skills at sex that count!”— Dr. Ruth Westheimer, twitter.com
“I understand the nature of the penis. I have been with enough guys that I am not weighing my self-esteem on every dip and bend that happens over the sexual experience. I've had partners go soft early, middle and late game. I get that the erection that starts the party might not be the same one you f…”— Exis007, reddit.com
“Do not put my old man in a death grip and pull it so furiously that it feels like being trapped in a threshing machine. Don’t hold on for dear life. I’m lying flat on your futon. I’m going nowhere.”— Gavin James Bower, sabotagetimes.com
“Gently gripping a man's testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure.”— Brendan Tapley, womansday.com
“You don't start out with the penis. Work your way up, stimulating the outside with a finger or tongue and then slowly use your finger to enter the anus. And then once she get used to that, you can go on to bigger and better things.”— Jill Provost, yourtango.com
“Getting the tip in hurts the most, because the head of the penis is the widest part. Once you're past that and up to the shaft, it'll feel a little better. Remember how much regular sex hurt at first, for some of us?”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com