“Use lube. I don’t care if you get caught up in the moment. Before you stick your dick in her pussy, you get her wet, and before you stick it in her ass, you slather on lube. It’s not an option. It’s an order.”— Holly Riordan, Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Does this mean all the times you didn't squirt were bad? Or were they good, and this was just way better? Or is squirting just different the way pizza and steak are both good but also very different?”— Anonymous Guy, cosmopolitan.com
“As great at this is, a heads up would've been nice, because this is getting messy. Next time, I'll basically line my room with those plastic furniture covers my grandma had all over her house. Wait ... did my grandma have those because ... oh no ... Oh, fuck no.”— Anonymous Guy, cosmopolitan.com
“I was having sex with my boyfriend in the early days of our relationship. He was standing and I was kneeling on the edge of the bed, with him taking me from behind. I could feel myself building to something slowly and steadily rather than in waves, which is how I usually feel when I'm on track for a…”— Anonymous Woman, cosmopolitan.com
“I was with a partner I felt very comfortable discussing my sexuality with. I'd expressed a desire to see if I was capable, curious about how it would feel. He was really into the idea, and we tried various positions and techniques until it happened.”— Anonymous Woman, cosmopolitan.com
“So how many women are able to squirt versus female ejaculate? No one knows for sure, but experts estimate anywhere from 10 to 54 percent of women are capable of doing either. Which means you shouldn't feel bad about not having clear liquid shooting out of your vagina every time you have sex, and you…”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com
“As a feminist and a sex writer, I would like to live in a world where all types of orgasms, provided they’re the result of consensual sexual activity, are considered equally OK, regardless of whether a little (totally sterile, harmless) bodily fluid might come out as a result. I’d like to live in a…”— EJ Dickson, dailydot.com
“My best friend regularly obsesses about her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, who was a "squirter," and therefore the real-life incarnate of many men's fantasy partner. Porn has encouraged men to believe that when they've truly rocked a woman's body, it starts doing an impression of the Bellagio Fountain i…”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com
“For a debate that can essentially, and crudely, be boiled down to "cum or piss?" it's surprisingly fraught with important implications. Some feminists say that reducing the physical manifestations of their orgasms to urine diminishes the importance of female pleasure during sex. Other feminists say…”— Allie Conti, vice.com
“If you want to learn how to squirt, you’ll need to enlist the help of your G-spot. The G-spot is hotly debated in its own right, but researchers agree that stroking the anterior wall of the vagina (the front side) will create a unique sensation that can lead to an orgasm. Most people are fixated on…”— Vanessa Marin, afterhours.lifehacker.com
“There's a lot of conflicting information out there about female ejaculation, or more colloquially, squirting. It is perhaps the greatest mystery of our time. At this point, it's practically mythology (previously compared to urban legends of Loch Ness proportions). Squirting is a myth, they say. Or n…”— Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.com
“Female ejaculation looks a lot like male ejaculation without the sperm. True female ejaculation is a small amount of thick fluid secreted around the time of orgasm for most women. It originates in the glands found within the erectile tissue surrounding the urethra that are analogous to the prostate…”— Madeleine Castellanos MD, thesexmd.com
“As late as the 1980s, most doctors who were aware of the phenomenon of women ejaculating assumed the fluid must be urine. As a treatment, they would recommend exercises to strengthen the pelvic muscles, such as Kegels. The truth is, many women do leak a little urine during sex and during other activ…”— Laura Berman, PhD, everydayhealth.com
“The sensual spoon. Lie on your side with your guy behind you. Keep both of your torsos in this doze pose and lift your top leg. Have him shift his lower body into a half-kneeling position, entering you from behind.”— Korin Miller, cosmopolitan.com
“Tug of war. Odds are, you're still a little sleepy first-thing. This move lets you kick back while getting an amazing pleasure boost. Have him sit cross-legged on the bed before you straddle him. Lower yourself onto his penis and wrap your legs around his back. As you're sitting face-to-face, grab e…”— Korin Miller, cosmopolitan.com
“The seated scissors. This position allows the woman to have the control in order to determine the depth and angle of penetration as well as how much clitoral stimulation she gets. With the man lying flat on his back and his knees bent, she straddles him with one leg to the side of his hip and the ot…”— Madeleine M. Castellanos, sheknows.com
“Book ends. Each partner should be on their knees, facing one another in this sex position. As the man, crouch a little lower than your girlfriend so that you can slip inside her. From here, raise yourself back up like you were and start thrusting. This position works best if you’re roughly the same…”— Minot Little, lovepanky.com
“The exposed eagle. In this position, have your boyfriend sit down on the bed with his legs pointed straight in front of him. Lay on his thighs so that your pelvises are aligned, and his feet are on either side of your head. With your thighs on either side of his hips, bend your legs so that your fee…”— Minot Little, lovepanky.com
“Lotus Lovin'. In lotus position, the man is seated and the woman kneels on his lap, or sits and wraps her legs around him in a position that, apparently, resembles a lotus flower. A kinky lotus flower... but I digress.”— Kimberly Liu, kinkly.com
“Racy embrace. The best way to indulge into a smoldering lip-lock along with relishing passionate lovemaking moments with your guy! While your partner sits relaxed on the bed with his legs crossed, take him by surprise and jump onto his lap. Wrap your legs tightly around his waist and taking the cont…”— iDiva, idiva.com