“Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else.”— Olivia Cruz, desiredmag.comTagged: rough sex, anal, Anal Sex
“Make a sex tape. Just be sure YOU are the only one in possession of it.”— Becky, thestir.cafemom.comTagged: rough sex, sex tape, Sex
“Spanking is an easy way to introduce the concept of bondage.”— Elite Daily, elitedaily.comTagged: rough sex, spanking, bondage
“Leave scratch marks down her back. Normally, that would be her job, since she’s the one with the long nails, but she’ll enjoy the sensation just as much as you do. It’s just plain sexy.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: rough sex, scratching, Markings
“All that leather and latex in BDSM has a purpose. It adds tactile and visual novelty by changing the way a partner's body feels and looks during sex. Change something about yourself. More vamp, less Victoria's Secret. Wear a new fragrance or a temporary tattoo.”— Debra Macleod, huffingtonpost.comTagged: rough sex, Leather, Latex, Tattoos
“Get into some mutual masturbation. Side-by-side. Not much is hotter than starting a hot night off with some mutual masturbation.”— Becky, thestir.cafemom.comTagged: rough sex, masturbation, masturbate
“Have sex with the curtains open and get a little too close to the window.”— Olivia Cruz, desiredmag.comTagged: rough sex, public sex, Sex
“You can also have your partner tap different areas of your body—like your breasts—using the object-of-choice while they're performing oral sex. This creates a sensual mixture of light pain and sexual stimulation at the same time.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.comTagged: rough sex, Paddle, feather
“Use leashes, collars, and leather.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, Leather, Collars, Leashes
“You can ride him around, instruct him to crawl on all fours with your crop and even reward him with a carrot — or something more tantalizing — if he’s a good boy.”— Adriana, badgirlsbible.comTagged: rough sex, Animals, roleplay
“Pee right before, even if you just went 30 minutes ago. When you're feeling that lovely vibration of rope running across your bare skin is not the time to be hearing the call of nature.”— Rope Bottoming, ropebottoming.comTagged: rough sex, bathroom, Pee
“Tie a scarf around her eyes to blind her, use handcuffs to secure her wrists together, or take out a whip to slap against her backside.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: rough sex, sex toys, handcuffs
“Tell him you want to be tied up and spanked, no more, no less. I can't stress enough the importance of having a pre-sex conversation about your own limits and making sure that he understands them.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rough sex, Communication, Guidelines
“While I enjoy some occasional face slapping, this one is difficult for a lot of men to engage in because men are generally taught not to hit women.”— Elite Daily, elitedaily.comTagged: rough sex, Slapping, Hitting, bondage
“Read erotica. A good way to see examples of a TON of different kinds of tops and how they do their thing is to seek out some erotica on the subject.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, erotica, Books
“Never tie rope in a way that might restrict someone’s ability to breathe.”— Carolyn Yates, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, bondage, Safety
“Use spatulas, rulers or paint sticks as makeshift paddles.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.comTagged: rough sex, Paddles, spanking
“Even if you love being put in light bondage and whisked away on a journey of sensation, make sure to switch roles every once in awhile. It can be equally arousing and fun to be the one in control, and you'll both discover new parts of yourselves when you switch it up.”— Your Tango, yourtango.comTagged: rough sex, bondage, Control, Dominating