“Many men who have affairs have ‘jump phones’ or ‘burner phones’ that they use exclusively for their cheating behavior. These phones are often prepaid phones that resemble the old school flip phone Nokias of a decade before. If you see him pull one out, it could be a burn phone, and it could be a sig…”— Ossiana Tepfenhart, thebolde.comTagged: Cheating, prepaid phones, phones
“If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.comTagged: Cheating, Lies, Trust
“If your husband has changed his protocol and passwords, it might be worth taking a closer look.”— Patti Blue Hayes, huffingtonpost.comTagged: Cheating, Phone, passwords, Secrets
“Being angry in an instant — or being overly nice — is a red flag. There's no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one. New activities, such as him going out all the time (but never mentions it until afterward) is a glaring example. If he was going somewhere and had no reason to hide it,…”— Charles J. Orlando, yourtango.comTagged: Cheating, Moody, red flags, secrecy
“If the only photos your boyfriend posts when you're together are just of him, ‘Houston, we have a problem!’ If you go on vacations and dates with your boyfriend, but his social media presence reflects he’s either alone or out with his buddies, there’s a reason for that.”— Liz Crokin, elitedaily.comTagged: Cheating, Selfies, Social Media, photographs
“If you go over to his house and notice something as subtle as a glass on the nightstand on your side of his bed that you never left there, it could be a sign someone else slept in his bed. Or, maybe, the day after he told you he had ‘the guys’ over the night before, you discover every CD in his ster…”— Liz Crokin, elitedaily.comTagged: Cheating, condoms, Music, Clues
“Being emotionally withdrawn. It’s never a good sign when it takes effort to make even basic conversation with your mate, and also when your partner no longer asks for more in-depth details about things going on in your life.”— Neil Morton, huffingtonpost.caTagged: Cheating, Detached, withdrawn
“He always seems to be making friends with new women whose names you only hear him mention occasionally and know nothing about. Apparently, there's a Kate in the mix now and last week it was a Hilary? Seriously how is he meeting all these female-named humans and why?”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Cheating, other women, Secrets
“Part of an emotional affair is talking about everything to the point of over-sharing. You know, the way couples do. So it could be a bad sign if your partner is suddenly extremely aware of more personal details about another person, especially if it's to an unreasonable level.”— Carolyn Steber, bustle.comTagged: Cheating, Details, emotional affair
“There's a tan line on his wedding ring finger. Believe it or not, many cheaters could get caught if the other woman searched for this simple little detail. If a guy takes off his wedding ring when he’s flirting, a tan line or an imprint is quite likely.”— Ossiana Tepfenhart, thebolde.comTagged: Cheating, wedding ring, ring
“He looks different down there. Even though he normally complains about how much he hates shaving, his genitals are now completely bare. He’s taken his manscaping up a notch for seemingly no reason at all.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Cheating, Appearance, hair, genitals, Sex
“Optimizing precious moments with a lover is a balancing act, so he’s counting minutes. ‘It won’t raise any red flags if I’m home by 6:00pm on the dot,’ he rationalizes. Or, ‘If I call her every day at noon, she won’t get suspicious.’ He’s drawing timelines in the sand, and being uncharacteristically…”— Abby Rodman, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Cheating, timelines, Time, schedule
“Your mate never talks to you. You live together but don't interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.”— Raymond B. Green, today.comTagged: Cheating, Interaction, Communication, Heartless
“Did he suddenly morph from flannel and dirty boots to smart suits and shiny loafers? I'd add in wearing cologne all of a sudden, or changing the cologne he always wears to something new. Could be a sign the mistress gave him a bottle that she likes better.”— Kiri Blakeley, thestir.cafemom.comTagged: Cheating, Appearance, clothing, cologne
“The guy has odd reasons for you not to come to certain parties or get-togethers, like it will all be people from work and you’ll be bored, or it’s more of a guy’s night, or you won’t like the bar. Come on; a guy that really likes you and isn’t up to anything shady wants you around! Even if you would…”— Julia Austin, madamenoire.comTagged: Cheating, Flirting, shady, suspicious
“His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.comTagged: Cheating, Guilt, Secrets, Friends
“Is he out several nights a week meeting with clients, vendors, agencies and people from his department or team? Have you been excluded from the social gatherings, and then learn other spouses had attended? This is a pretty good indication that he’s up to something.”— Patti Blue Hayes, huffingtonpost.comTagged: Cheating, Work, Career
“He says he wants to stay in and then your friend sees him out at a bar. He says he's going to bed and then posts a pic of himself doing shots with a bunch of girls.”— Frank Kobola, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Cheating, Lies, Flirting, evidence
“If you don’t know your man’s friends or family after you’ve gotten serious, there may be someone else who does.”— Maxwell Billieon, essence.comTagged: Cheating, Family, Friends, serious relationships
“Your mate turns the table and accuses you of cheating but has no evidence.”— Raymond B. Green, today.comTagged: Cheating, accusations, evidence