50 Pieces Of The Only Real Dating Advice You Need

“If you’re casually dating other guys but Mr. McDreamy seems to be the best candidate… get rid of the other suitors immediately.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“It’s much easier to meet a quality guy in person when you’re not blacked out. If you can’t have a few drinks without losing your right contact lens and left shoe, try meeting guys through some sober activities that you enjoy.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“Every guy imagines the girl of his dreams as having a vibrant, interesting life that he wants to become a part of.”

— Matthew Hussey, amazon.com

“And remember this… When you begin to work overtime to be in a man’s life it’s because he’s not pulling his weight or doing his own fair share of the work. Which is making you work harder. And the harder you work the more he loses respects for you.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“Here's what I've learned about deal-breakers. If you have enough natural chemistry with someone, you overlook every single thing that you said would break the deal.”

— Taylor Swift, eonline.com

“Compete only with yourself, being the best you can be, and you will find comfort and serenity that others will see as confidence and that will keep you calm and focused — all of which are incredibly attractive characteristics.”

— Joy Browne, amazon.com

“The guy who deserves you will know and understand how valuable you are, and he’ll work hard not to lose you.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“When a man takes a romantic interest in you I suggest you follow his lead at a pace that is most comfortable with you.”

— Bruce Bryans, brucebryans.com

“It’s important to ask yourself this two-part question: What are you overvaluing about him at that moment? And, more important, what are you undervaluing about yourself?”

— Matthew Hussey, amazon.com

“The right man will give you the commitment that you’re really looking for. Falling in love with a man who’s not ready to give you the kind of commitment you deserve will only make things difficult for both you and him, especially you.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“We attract men that mirror ourselves; the law of attraction is that likes attract likes. So if you are not in love with yourself, or even in like with yourself chances are it’s going to be hard to attract a man that not only loves you, but likes you too.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“How we treat our mothers is a mirror to how we may treat you now or in the future.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Ladies, I’m here to tell you that if a man tells you he has a commitment problem, nine times out of ten it simply means that he has a problem committing to you.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Self-respect is a one-punch knockout to a guy. When you are confident enough to wield your power and you show that you aren’t fearful of losing him, he becomes fearful of losing you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Don’t allow your baggage from past relationships to affect your attitude towards men and dating.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.”

— THE EDITORS OF MEN'S HEALTH, menshealth.com

“We all have insecurities. It’s only human. But when it comes to dating men, you don’t want to do or say anything that clearly communicates that you don’t believe you’re worth it.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Say, 'I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting but the phone.'”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Say, 'I will not date a man who isn't sure he wants to date me.'”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“You must want to be treated right by the right man far more than you want male attention.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you he will.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Sometimes the very thing you’re hiding from the world might be the one thing that makes you exceptionally beautiful to a man.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect; you get what you demand from people.. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.”

— Tucker Max, amazon.com

“If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Men aren’t that complicated. If a guy says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, he means it. If he isn’t taking steps to be with you, it’s because he doesn’t want to. If you can’t tell how he feels, then you actually already know how he feels. See? Not complicated.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.”

— Robert Tew, consciouslifenews.com

“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Never on a first date ask a man if they're looking for a relationship.”

— Kevin Grey, amazon.com

“We're all a bit bruised, a bit scarred and jaded. Some days are certainly going to be darker. But at the end of the day, your happiness is truly a choice. And a relationship isn’t going to ‘fix’ you.”

— Paul Hudson, elitedaily.com