Ladies, what are some sex tips you wish every guy knew? • /r/sex

“Spankage! Those of us who like it, prefer you do it often. Obviously communication is key, but if you are with a lady who wants to be spanked. Dear god....spank her!!! Also...tell me before you cum. Most of the time...I will cum with you. It's sexy. I don't care if it only lasted .003 seconds. We wi…”

— Anonymous, reddit.com

“• When it comes to oral, my clitoris is where 85% of my partner's attention should be focused. The rest can be pleasurable but they have to really know what they're doing, or it's just 'pleasant.' (I wish I could give specifics for 'know what they're doing'—but alas, this is not my area of expertise…”

— justheretosaythis, reddit.com

“I understand the nature of the penis. I have been with enough guys that I am not weighing my self-esteem on every dip and bend that happens over the sexual experience. I've had partners go soft early, middle and late game. I get that the erection that starts the party might not be the same one you f…”

— Exis007, reddit.com

“Subtle touches. Small grabs.”

— ToastieCrumbs, reddit.com

“I love rough sex. Don't worry, I won't break.”

— GentleLady, reddit.com

“I HATE IT when boys finger by going in and out fast. If I wanted you to fuck me, I'd ask you to use your dick. INSTEAD swirl your finger in a circular motion—you hit places your dick never can, and my god, the results are phenomenal.”

— Smokie112, reddit.com

“My clit is NOT located on my pubic bone.”

— ellegirl82091, reddit.com

“Do not start out with a ton of pressure on my clit. Trust me, you'll get there. Just start out gentle. Do not slobber on my face while you are kissing me. Experiment. Even if you're not confident, fake it and play around. Just the simple act of getting enjoyment from my naked body turns me on. And I…”

— urfouy, reddit.com

“• Kissing plays a very important part to us. Lack of kissing can possibly be a turn off. • Foreplay, it's important. We love to be touched!! Tease us, kiss us, rub our nipples, gently touch our breasts. The buildup is quite amazing! Shoving your cock instantly inside of us without the foreplay can b…”

— artificialsweetner, reddit.com

“Just because you've cum, doesn't mean I stop being horny and am ready to be done. I know you might be tired, but don't just automatically assume I'm finished when I give you a little lull to get back into the action. Let's make sex enjoyable for both of us; this doesn't mean we both have to come eve…”

— lawfairy, reddit.com

“Please don't press down on the clit like you're trying to defeat a Final Fantasy boss. Be gentle at first. Also, clip your fucking nails. Seriously. That shit hurts.”

— TheLadyEowyn, reddit.com

“Lover and a friend...it's much more important than you think. Please don't focus on the end game (your orgasm), it's gonna happen, and I promise you, if you take your time, the end result will be oh so worth it. Pay attention to the reaction of the body you are playing with. If you keep pounding and…”

— lifeliver, reddit.com

“More caressing and kissing my entire body. I mean it happens but not often enough!”

— neanrine, reddit.com

“• Take the time to pleasure every inch of our body. Our vaginas, boobs and asses aren't our only erogenous zones. • Tease us...no need to rush. Take your time on each spot and pay attention to how we react to know whether you should move on or stay there a while longer. • Don't rush straight for the…”

— Maxxters, reddit.com

“On occasion, try progressing slowly. Cuddle, snuggle, kiss, caress, tease, then fondle, lick, kiss more. Start out innocent, then show us how much you want it. The buildup feels so good. You may get us to the point where we are begging for it.”

— Savetonight, reddit.com

“Anal sex: SLOWLY. Use lube. Use A LOT of lube. If you think you've used enough, use more. Then, go slowly. In fact, at first, just provide the cock. Let the ass happen to you. After that, we'll show you how fast/how hard to go. I know way too many girls who hate anal sex because they've had some guy…”

— hautegauche, reddit.com

“Be able to laugh in bed.”

— csmithsd, reddit.com

“• Every girl is different. This applies to how they get off, what positions they like, how they express their orgasm, etc. If you're with a girl that has to touch herself during sex to achieve orgasm, it may very well be because her anatomy makes it difficult to reach orgasm through penetration alon…”

— Fauzlin, reddit.com

“I hate it when a guy is completely silent while he's fucking me. It's a turn-on when he moans and expresses himself to me during sex. Talking dirty or just telling me how good I feel and how he has been wanting me all day or something like that. Also if a guy comes really loudly like a horny, euphor…”

— netphilia, reddit.com

“One of my exes did this AMAZING maneuver and I've been waiting to encounter it again ever since. He would put me right on the edge of the bed, get on his knees and start licking my clit while fingering me. Just as he could tell that I was reallyyy getting into it and was almost about to cum, he woul…”

— xoxout, reddit.com