“Make genuine, consistent eye contact. Let him know you're paying attention to what he's saying. Smile often when you're with him (And not at the guy behind him). Smile at him.”— Marni Battista, yourtango.comTagged: flirting tips, Eye Contact, smiling, body language
“Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or a piece of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you.”— Holly Ashworth, teenadvice.about.comTagged: flirting tips, compliments, Appearance
“Wear dangly earrings. They draw attention to the smooth curves of our neck — it's a classy way to subtly show skin.”— Elisa Benson, seventeen.comTagged: flirting tips, earrings, jewelry
“The funny thing about men is that telling them less about your life makes them long for you more. So as much as you might want to share the minutiae of your bitchy workplace or your take on the latest Grey's Anatomy plot twist, hold back.”— Colleen Rush, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, Conversation, Mystery
“Tell your mutual friend that you think this person is cute and seems pretty funny. Ask if she could set you guys up, or at the very least, help you coordinate a group hangout during which you would meet.”— Arianna Rebolini, buzzfeed.comTagged: flirting tips, Friends, group date, matchmaking
“Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.”— Holly Ashworth, teenadvice.about.comTagged: flirting tips, Communication, Questions
“When I'm getting hit on by someone cute at a bar, I start to bite the end of my straw... or lightly suck on it.”— Anonymous, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, sucking, hit on, bar
“Turn sideways in your chair, cross your legs, arch your back, and run your fingers through your hair.”— Korin Miller, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, body language, sexiness
“Confidence is almost always ranked by guys as the most attractive trait a woman can have, so ooze it.”— Brittany Talarico, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, Confidence, Self-Confidence
“Complain about something together. Find something small or insignificant that bothers both of you: maybe the giant deer head on the wall that you both laughed about. Poking fun at the same things helps you get closer, and it also puts you on the same team!”— Marni Battista, yourtango.comTagged: flirting tips, Complaining, complaints
“Buy them a drink. You can do this by going up to them and saying, ‘Can I buy you a drink?’ or you can do that thing on TV where you tell the server you’re paying for their next one.”— Arianna Rebolini, buzzfeed.comTagged: flirting tips, bar, Drinks, Alcohol
“Get closer. Then break eye contact just long enough to glance down at his lips. It's a subtle cue that you're open to a kiss.”— Elisa Benson, seventeen.comTagged: flirting tips, Eye Contact, Kissing
“What are some things you both like a lot? Find out what that is. Attraction isn’t just physical — it’s intellectual, too.”— Madison Moore, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: flirting tips, Attraction, Intellectual, physical
“Hold yourself tall and proud. A girl who sits and stands naturally upright exudes confidence. Don’t hunch your shoulders because it gives the mental impression of you cowering away. You want you body to appear open and inviting.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: flirting tips, Confidence, posture, body language
“Delaying gratification makes your man fantasize about you more. When you tease him with sexy text messages or the promise of sex, his imagination runs wild.”— Colleen Rush, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, Delayed Gratification, Patience, Sex
“Tease him... and by that I mean make fun of him a little bit. Don't say anything too mean, but joke around with him in the way you would joke around with, say, a guy best friend.”— Jessica Booth, gurl.comTagged: flirting tips, teasing, joking
“Always approach from the front. Nobody likes being snuck up on by a stranger.”— Patrick Allan, lifehacker.comTagged: flirting tips, approach, first move
“Men won’t approach you if they think you’re inaccessible. Don’t stay within a circle of your friends when you’re out at the club and try your best to appear approachable.”— Diana Bradley, beyondtalk.netTagged: flirting tips, approachable, friendly
“If you're spending a night out with girlfriends and can't seem to work up the courage to approach a guy who's caught your interest, ask a friend to step in.”— Kristen Flanagan, glamour.comTagged: flirting tips, wingwoman, Friends
“Lean on him with an excuse while talking to him by adjusting your heel, or losing your balance, or while walking through a crowd.”— Cheryl James, lovepanky.comTagged: flirting tips, touching, casual, excuses