“Acting like you've never done any of this before.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, pretending, faking
“Two words: Vice grip. The objective isn’t to pull the damn thing off.”— Hannah Gale, metro.co.ukTagged: Never Do During Sex, blowjobs, Handjobs, pressure
“Thinking too much. Don’t wait until you’re horizontal to start overanalyzing the state of your relationship. Distracted minds do not make for great orgasms.”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Thinking, Analyzing, Distracted
“High five! Alright people, this isn't drunken sex in a dorm room. This is adult sex. You can do better.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, High-five, Immature
“Call him the wrong name.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, name, moans, mistake
“Talk about babies (even if you're trying to make one).”— Liz Newman, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, babies, Children, Parenting
“Checking their phone. Whether it’s a text or a phone call, it can wait. It’s bad enough when people check their phone on a date, but mid-sex? Come on. Anyone who does that is basically saying that they’re not very present in what’s going on between the sheets.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Phone, Texting, calls
“Call it a "member" or anything other than its anatomical designation.”— Reed Tucker, marieclaire.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Language, Member, slang
“Overly wild girls. Here's an example. Riding you like a rodeo clown, swinging her hair around so it violently smacks off your face and gets in your mouth. She wallops your chest and screams the house down. That's a bit too far, no matter how much you're enjoying yourself. This isn't porn, unfortunat…”— Ian Smith, collegetimes.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Wild, crazy, Riding
“One thing that doesn't make a good lubricant: water. Water actually just adds to the chaffing. If you are giving a hand job and need some extra lubricant, reach for the lotion, not the faucet.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, lube, Water, handjob
“No adventure. Okay, so you move and talk a little bit but missionary is about as far as you’ll go. For some men, that may work just fine, but for others…that simply won’t do.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Adventure, kinky, Variety
“It's not cute when she keeps wanting to know how pretty she is.”— Malia Griggs, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, compliments, Pretty, Begging
“Stop him in the middle of sex so you can go pee.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, bathroom, Pee
“Not being fresh. You don’t have to be fresh out the shower to hop in the sack with your lover, but you do need to freshen up first. This includes your breath. (No one’s a fan of garlic or onion breath.)”— Charli Penn, essence.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Breath, Clean, hygiene
“Not taking the lead. Don’t wait to get asked to dance…meaning you’ve got to take the lead. You don’t have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You’ll both have a lot of fun and enjoy…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, first move, initiate
“They expect their lover to read their mind. Men aren't mind readers and each woman can vary in terms of what pleases her and helps her reach orgasm. Let your partner know how he can please you. Be specific and concrete. Show him. Gentle but clear direction will be greatly appreciated. Your man wants…”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Advice, Guidance, help
“Skip the sense of humor. Sex at its best is still messy and full of unexpected hair pulls and noises from below. But it’s that way for everyone, so what can you do besides laugh it off?”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Laughing, Funny, humor
“Don't force your partner into doing something that they don’t want to do.”— Emma Ziff, blogher.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, peer pressure, pressure, Consent
“Not owning your own body. What most men find as a lasting turn-on more than anything is how a woman carries herself. Her confidence. If you are always down on your body, you can do something about it by working out if you want. But one thing you can for sure do is learn to embrace the skin you’re in…”— Corey Allan, simplemarriage.netTagged: Never Do During Sex, Body, Confidence