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“Every rose has it's thorn, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with a ton of pricks.”

— Kelly Rossi, Dating the Wrong Men: The Misadventurer's Guide Through Bad Relationship Choices.

“Anal sex is rarely messy. Your bowels are generally empty until you're ready to go. That said, if your partner is completely uncomfortable with the possibility of poop, anal sex is maybe not for him. After all, it's not like he's fucking you in the ear and there's poop in it. It's a butt. It's where…”

— Emily McCombs, Every Month Is Anal Sex Month With These Simple TIps

“A lot of the reasons I love it so much are psychological. It's dirty, it's taboo, Oh yeah, you're fucking me in the ass baby, that kind of thing. But to be honest, I kind of feel the same way about vaginal sex. The actual physical sensation ain't all that. If I was having sex purely for sensation, I…”

— Emily McCombs, Every Month Is Anal Sex Month With These Simple TIps

“You don't have to be part of a couple to be happy, you know.”

— Phyllis Reynolds Naylor, Alice Alone

“Though your anus is not a storage compartment for feces, they do pass through their on the way to the porcelain pool, so your diet can impact your degree of comfort and pleasure during anal play. If you don’t have enough fiber in your diet and you have to push hard when going to the bathroom, irrita…”

— Jessica O'Reilly, 11 Anal Sex Tips You Need to Know

“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage – to move in the opposite direction.”

— E. F. Shumacker, Small Is Beautiful

“Your breathing patterns are essential to enjoying anal sex and ensuring that it is pleasurable and entirely pain-free. Though you can easily control your outer sphincter muscle with your central nervous system (the same system that allows you to contract and the other muscles in your body at will),…”

— Jessica O'Reilly, 11 Anal Sex Tips You Need to Know

“Edit your life frequently and ruthlessly. It's your masterpiece after all.”

— Nathan W. Morris, Your 33 Day Money Action Plan

“When it comes to sex, there is considerable value in trying new things on your own before introducing them to partnered play, as we often allow our body’s natural responses to flow more freely and experience less pressure in the absence of a lover. If you want to experiment with anal play, try playi…”

— Jessica O'Reilly, 11 Anal Sex Tips You Need to Know

“When it's time to finish, don't assume it's okay to do inside of your partner. That's probably true of all sexual acts (R-E-S-P-E-C-T), but it's especially important with backdoor play, because semen can have a laxative effect, which can lead to accidents.”

— Jolie Kerr, An Exceedingly Polite Beginner's Guide To Anal Sex

“Using condoms will help to make cleanup easier and is absolutely recommended for partners who are not exclusive to ensure that your sexually health remains, well, healthy.”

— Jolie Kerr, An Exceedingly Polite Beginner's Guide To Anal Sex

“Go sit on the pot and clear your bowels. You may also want to wash; a washcloth and mild soap are best for this, and employing your fingers to clear debris out of your butthole is also suggested. Somewhat related to this: Avoid foods that tend to cause gastric distress.”

— Jolie Kerr, An Exceedingly Polite Beginner's Guide To Anal Sex

“The joy of rimming. Boy, do I love a good rim job. Hopefully, you and your b/f do too. 'Cause like, if boy can't get a tongue in your butt, ain't no way his dick's going up there, you feel me?”

— Diana, User's Guide: Going To Butt Town

“First of all, it's easier to do when you've had a few drinks. I know that's not 'healthy' advice, but it's real advice. Your spirit and butthole are freed or something. It just doesn't feel as weird.”

— Anna B., What 9 Women Wish They Knew About Anal Sex Before They Tried It

“What I wished I had known before I did anal is that if something is a little sore, it doesn't mean you have to stop right away and look at your butthole with a magnifying glass to make sure nothing is wrong with it. You can just go slowly. The exception is if you feel a really sharp or unusual pain.…”

— Margaret C., What 9 Women Wish They Knew About Anal Sex Before They Tried It

“I think we are going to have to love ourselves. Fuck.”

— Liz Tuccillo, How to Be Single

“It’s imperative that the guy who’s going to be penetrating me is trustworthy and gentle, and not an asshole. Assholes don’t mix with my asshole. I’m going to be getting in sexual positions where my body will look fleshy and revolting. It will seem like I’ve magically gained 20 pounds somewhere for n…”

— Ryan O'Connell, What It Feels Like To Get F***ed In The Ass

“Believe, because the best is possible. Prepare, because the worst is too.”

— Brianna Wiest, Strategies For When You Need To Think More Clearly About Something

“Men love to be trusted. They love to hear us say yes to their desires and lay our pleasure in their hands. It feeds into their primal instinct to protect and naturally dominate. Women want to give, so handing over the ‘ I trust you with my a-card’ is something rare and novel. Trust is a gift to both…”

— Belle Aria, Why Women Should Have Anal Sex

“Every woman has a little wild streak in them and a desire to be a bad girl. Who wants to always be the goody two shoes? There’s something alluring and mysterious about the dark side, dangerous and edgy. If I was any good at acting, I’d want to play your basic bad bitch because it just so much more f…”

— Belle Aria, Why Women Should Have Anal Sex