“The trick to flirtatious eye contact is to maintain your gaze longer than usual. If you spot someone across the way, try to meet their gaze, hold it for a few seconds, and look away.”— Patrick Allan, lifehacker.comTagged: flirting tips, Eye Contact, Eyes
“Try running your hands through your hair (once, don't overdo it or you'll look crazy), tracing your finger along your collarbone (again, don't overdo it) or licking your lips (AGAIN, once!).”— Jessica Booth, gurl.comTagged: flirting tips, body language, Lips, hair
“Master the bump-and-flatter. Run into a hottie at a crowded party. Say, "Oh, sorry — I become a total klutz around cute guys." Then just introduce yourself.”— Elisa Benson, seventeen.comTagged: flirting tips, introduction, Accidents
“Give him a lingering, soft hug while saying goodbye. But make sure you’ve lifted your chest high enough for him to feel your breasts against his body.”— Cheryl James, lovepanky.comTagged: flirting tips, hugs, breasts
“As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don't compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips.”— Colleen Rush, cosmopolitan.comTagged: flirting tips, pet names, name
“Lean your body in towards him when you are talking. You don’t have to be constantly leaning in as if you are hard of hearing, but if you lean in every now and then it will feel like you want to share something only with him which will create a sense of intimacy.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: flirting tips, leaning, Intimacy, Body
“You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a car).”— Holly Ashworth, teenadvice.about.comTagged: flirting tips, Conversation, Fun, casual
“Give them your number. There is nothing to lose.”— Arianna Rebolini, buzzfeed.comTagged: flirting tips, Phone Number, first move
“Whatever you do, do NOT do the I’m-ignoring-you-totally-nope-I-don’t-even-see-you, because they won’t have a clue that you do that out of nervousness/anxiety and they will actually think you HATE them.”— Madison Moore, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: flirting tips, Ignoring, hard to get, Nervous
“Don't interrupt him with your story that betters his. If he's sharing that he went hiking in Joshua Tree, don't share about how you did that too, but what was really awesome was your trip to Yosemite. Truly listen and reflect back what you hear him saying.”— Marni Battista, yourtango.comTagged: flirting tips, Listening, Conversation
“If you see him at a night club or party, go up and ask him to dance. If he seems willing but shy, pull him onto the dance floor!”— Diana Bradley, beyondtalk.netTagged: flirting tips, club, bar, Dancing, first move
“The shoulder, elbow, and forearm are considered the safest areas to touch a stranger. A brief, well-timed knee touch can also work, especially for stories where you’re at the ‘you won’t believe what happened next’ part. And never underestimate the power of the high-five.”— Anna Pulley, afterellen.comTagged: flirting tips, touching, high fives, Stories
“Swing your hips. Men love this. The way you walk will make or break your chances with a guy.”— Abie Giles, slism.comTagged: flirting tips, hips, Walking, strutting
“Give them an unusual compliment. Say something like ‘you have a very confident-sounding voice,’ or ‘you seem like someone who knows how to get the best out of people,’ or ‘you have a delightfully offbeat personality.’ Leave them with a compliment that will stick with them and make you unique.”— Patrick Allan, lifehacker.comTagged: flirting tips, compliments, unique
“Slow down and accentuate your movements. It's surprisingly simple and easy to do, yet it will dramatically improve your sex appeal.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.comTagged: flirting tips, Patience, slow, sex appeal
“If you tie your hair up, lifting your arms to do so will draw his attention naturally to your chest without having to wear low cut tops with your breasts hanging out or push-up bras.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: flirting tips, hair, breasts, Body
“Don't sit there and obsess over every word he says and don't think too much into anything. If you're not overthinking, you'll feel more relaxed and then you'll be more happy... and then you'll be on your A-game.”— Jessica Booth, gurl.comTagged: flirting tips, relax, Happiness
“Don't dumb yourself down by giggling at everything he says or asking questions you already know the answers to.”— Kristen Flanagan, glamour.comTagged: flirting tips, giggling, intelligent
“Leaving a sweet note on his desk is super cute, and will definitely put a smile on his face.”— Michelle Keldgord, herinterest.comTagged: flirting tips, love note, smiling
“Remember that if you don’t flirt with your person right away, somebody else will gladly swoop in and flirt their ass off.”— Madison Moore, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: flirting tips, Rush, Brave
“Asking him for help will make him feel like a big tough guy that can take care of you-- think of it as him being the Superman to your Lois Lane.”— Michelle Keldgord, herinterest.comTagged: flirting tips, help, Questions
“Make sure you’re accentuating your best features.”— Michelle Keldgord, herinterest.comTagged: flirting tips, beauty, features
“The easiest way to build sexual tension is through teasing your guy, play-fighting and generally having fun, all the while making sure he knows you have fun.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.comTagged: flirting tips, sexual ension, teasing
“Flick your hair to the other side slowly with one hand while talking to him. Guys are suckers for this move.”— Cheryl James, lovepanky.comTagged: flirting tips, body language, hair
“Go to one of your favorite coffee shops a few times a week to meet up with friends or read a book like the hipster you are. Soon enough, you’ll start to notice some regulars, just like you. If one of those regulars catches your eye, consider buying him an iced coffee to cool him off because he’s jus…”— Marisa Tesoro, hercampus.comTagged: flirting tips, Routine, first move
“Display your sense of humor. Laugh at their jokes if they're funny and tell a couple of your own. Don't be afraid to let them know that they're funny with words in addition to a giggle or guffaw.”— Crystal Schwanke, teens.lovetoknow.comTagged: flirting tips, humor, Funny, Laughter
“Be animated with your hands, body and face. This will also make you seem more energetic and healthy – both attractive qualities.”— Diana Bradley, beyondtalk.netTagged: flirting tips, animated, energetic, Excitement
“The cardinal rule is to be yourself. However trite it may sound, it's true. If you can't impress your crush by being true to who you are, do you really want to spend much more time with him or her?”— Crystal Schwanke, teens.lovetoknow.comTagged: flirting tips, Be yourself, Personality
“Casually touch your crush's arm as if you're simply emphasizing a point.”— Crystal Schwanke, teens.lovetoknow.comTagged: flirting tips, touching, casual