How To Make A Girl Squirt: Everything You Need To Know About Female Ejaculation

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What is squirting? How do you make a woman squirt? Is female ejaculation a real thing, or is it just pee? Can I make myself squirt? 

“My best friend regularly obsesses about her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, who was a "squirter," and therefore the real-life incarnate of many men's fantasy partner. Porn has encouraged men to believe that when they've truly rocked a woman's body, it starts doing an impression of the Bellagio Fountain i…”

— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“As a feminist and a sex writer, I would like to live in a world where all types of orgasms, provided they’re the result of consensual sexual activity, are considered equally OK, regardless of whether a little (totally sterile, harmless) bodily fluid might come out as a result. I’d like to live in a…”

— EJ Dickson, dailydot.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasm, Sex

“I was with a partner I felt very comfortable discussing my sexuality with. I'd expressed a desire to see if I was capable, curious about how it would feel. He was really into the idea, and we tried various positions and techniques until it happened.”

— Anonymous Woman, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“Female ejaculation looks a lot like male ejaculation without the sperm. True female ejaculation is a small amount of thick fluid secreted around the time of orgasm for most women. It originates in the glands found within the erectile tissue surrounding the urethra that are analogous to the prostate…”

— Madeleine Castellanos MD, thesexmd.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, orgasms, Sex

“As great at this is, a heads up would've been nice, because this is getting messy. Next time, I'll basically line my room with those plastic furniture covers my grandma had all over her house. Wait ... did my grandma have those because ... oh no ... Oh, fuck no.”

— Anonymous Guy, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“So how many women are able to squirt versus female ejaculate? No one knows for sure, but experts estimate anywhere from 10 to 54 percent of women are capable of doing either. Which means you shouldn't feel bad about not having clear liquid shooting out of your vagina every time you have sex, and you…”

— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“There's a lot of conflicting information out there about female ejaculation, or more colloquially, squirting. It is perhaps the greatest mystery of our time. At this point, it's practically mythology (previously compared to urban legends of Loch Ness proportions). Squirting is a myth, they say. Or n…”

— Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“For a debate that can essentially, and crudely, be boiled down to "cum or piss?" it's surprisingly fraught with important implications. Some feminists say that reducing the physical manifestations of their orgasms to urine diminishes the importance of female pleasure during sex. Other feminists say…”

— Allie Conti, vice.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, orgasms, Squirting, Sex

“I was having sex with my boyfriend in the early days of our relationship. He was standing and I was kneeling on the edge of the bed, with him taking me from behind. I could feel myself building to something slowly and steadily rather than in waves, which is how I usually feel when I'm on track for a…”

— Anonymous Woman, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasm, Sex

“Does this mean all the times you didn't squirt were bad? Or were they good, and this was just way better? Or is squirting just different the way pizza and steak are both good but also very different?”

— Anonymous Guy, cosmopolitan.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, orgasms, Sex

“So what’s the big ‘secret’ to female ejaculation? There is no special button, no specific skillset to inherit. In fact, a lot of women have probably already ejaculated during sex, they just didn’t realize at the time. It is possible, after all, to experience ejaculation independent of orgasm. You ju…”

— Carrie Weisman, salon.com

Tagged: Squirting, Female Ejaculation, orgasm

“Whenever you see a large amount of fluid squirting out of a woman’s vagina in porn, keep in mind that this can be faked by putting water in the vagina before filming or by having a woman pee on camera. Women who can ejaculate will tell you that it’s easiest when you are relaxed and having cameras on…”

— Ami Angelowicz, thefrisky.com

Tagged: Porn, Squirting, Female Ejaculation, You Can't Squirt On Command

“So the next time you are in the midst of sex play, give yourself permission to let go and experience the orgasmic intensity of a g-spot orgasm. Don’t worry it’s not pee — unless you didn’t empty your bladder first. Try to make yourself as comfortable as possible and try to enjoy what the experience…”

— TaMara Griffin, madamenoire.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, Bladder, Female Orgasms Change Over Time

“It’s also not unusual to experience different types of orgasms throughout your sexual history. It may reassure you to know that, in one study, the ages at which some women experienced their first ejaculation varied quite a bit — one woman reported her first ejaculation at age 68!”

— Alice, goaskalice.columbia.edu

Tagged: orgasms, Squirting, Female Ejaculation, Female Orgasms Change Over Time

“While I do believe that most girls in squirting fetish pornos are just pissing (since, like I said, it doesn't seem possible to do on command), I know that what comes out of me is not pee. I live my life perpetually suffering between either mild dehydration or a UTI, meaning that my piss is (ab)norm…”

— Slut Machine, jezebel.com

Tagged: Squirting, Vagina, UTI, peeing, Female Ejaculation

“During sexual excitement, the women’s empty bladders filled up, and then, after they’d squirted, they were empty again—just as they’d been after they peed the first time. Which suggests that the women were probably releasing urine. But! There’s a caveat. The scientists also found that there was smal…”

— Annie Daly, womenshealthmag.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Squirting, What Is Squirting, Pee, Sex

“If you want to learn how to squirt, you’ll need to enlist the help of your G-spot. The G-spot is hotly debated in its own right, but researchers agree that stroking the anterior wall of the vagina (the front side) will create a unique sensation that can lead to an orgasm. Most people are fixated on…”

— Vanessa Marin, afterhours.lifehacker.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, orgasms, Sex, Squirting

“As late as the 1980s, most doctors who were aware of the phenomenon of women ejaculating assumed the fluid must be urine. As a treatment, they would recommend exercises to strengthen the pelvic muscles, such as Kegels. The truth is, many women do leak a little urine during sex and during other activ…”

— Laura Berman, PhD, everydayhealth.com

Tagged: Female Ejaculation, Sex, orgasms