“Forget thinking that in lesbian sex one woman is the dominant, or male partner, and the other plays the female role. The truth is that it’s all about taking turns to satisfy each other.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.comTagged: Lesbian, dominant, Roles, Turns
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“Earlobes, nipples, and the area right below the belly button are direct links to the vagina.”— Riese, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, Vagina, nipples, Ears
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“To be honest, you could ask six different lesbians what lesbian sex is and get six different answers. My friend Jackie says penetration (fingers or dildo). Sally told me via text message that it’s when her girlfriend sits on her face. Lisa wisely said, ‘You’ll know when you have it.’ I say it’s anyt…”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Lesbian, orgasm, Sex, penetration
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“Don’t just focus on her breasts, her lips, and her clitoris. Kiss her toes, behind her knees, the small of her back and her fingertips. If you’ve never tried anal sex, discuss it with your partner and see if she’d be open to giving it a try.”— Kathy Belge, lesbianlife.about.comTagged: Lesbian, Kissing, breasts, Lips, clitoris
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“Repeat after me: intercourse is not always the main event of sex. Remember that most women don’t even orgasm via penetration alone.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.comTagged: Lesbian, Sex, orgasm, penetration
“In a nutshell, scissoring is when you rub vulva up against vulva. Yes, it can be tricky. I’ve been kicked in the head a few times in the act.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Lesbian, Scissoring, vulva
“Some women won't give, but will only receive, and others vice versa, but usually both women take an equal role and take their turn when it comes to roles during sex.”— Rebecca Jane Stokes, yourtango.comTagged: Lesbian, Equality, give and take
“There are a lot of ways to put bodies together that feel good, no matter the gender of partners involved, and there really is little lesbians can't do which male-male or male-female couples can: everyone can engage in making out, petting, massage, frottage (sometimes called dry sex or, with women in…”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.comTagged: Lesbian, Sex, Making Out, fingering, oral
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