“Compliment your partner. You never forgot the guy who worshipped your long legs or waxed poetic about your breasts. Everyone likes a compliment, and since you’re probably attracted to the person you’re bedding, it shouldn’t be hard to come up with one.”— Kaitlin Menza, womenshealthmag.comTagged: sexting, compliments, Appearance
“Calling each other a bitch and a dog could excite a few *animal lovers*, not everyone else. If you like it, use it a couple of times and see if your man reciprocates by calling you something indecent in return. If he doesn’t say anything or looks surprised, don’t worry about it and just switch to so…”— Morgan Freeman, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, Curses, dirty talk
“The whole point of sexting is to be flirtatious and tempt him with words to make him crave you. Using big words or innuendos might throw him off, especially when the dude has no idea what the hell you're talking about”— Jen Kirsch, yourtango.comTagged: sexting, Simple, Flirting
“There are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.”— Morgan Miller, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, naughty, dirty, aroused
“For a lot of women, the point of talking dirty is to get more of what they want. Some people are totally satisfied and just incorporating it as a fun thing, which is great, but you can use it to ask for what you need or to make sure he stays put and keeps doing what he's doing.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.comTagged: sexting, Wants, Sex, Satisfaction
“Once you've been dating for a while, a naked pic or two may be fine as a memento. But for new sexters, just the thought of sex with you should be enough to get a guy hot and bothered. If your crush is bugging you to send pics, try painting a picture with words instead.”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, nudes, Pictures
“Just say what you feel. If you love a position or angle, tell him! Say I love it when you grab my ass.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.comTagged: sexting, sex positions, dirty talk
“In all fairness, sexting is the only time you can be a tease and have it be appreciated. The best sext stems from built up anticipation; don't show all the goods at once.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, teasing, Anticipation
“Aside from human error in grammar and spelling, autocorrect is also the bane of sexting in the moment. Instead of saying you want to stroke his thighs and run your fingers on his hard chest, you might end up saying you want to string his things and ruin your fingerlings on his harvest. Double check…”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, autocorrect, double check, cautious
“Weave a narrative into your messages. This way, you get to build slowly up to a climax, teasing and tantalizing him all the way. In other words, tell him a story of what you plan on doing to him.”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, Stories, Narrative
“Don't sext before you actually have sex. There is nothing that can possible be worse than over delivering via text and under delivering in real life.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, Sex, Patience
“Unless you’re trying to be more funny than sexy, you should skimp on the emoticons. You don’t have to put a winking face at the end of your sentence for him to understand you’re flirting. He’ll get it.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: sexting, Emojis, emoticons
“Many girls (and most guys) think sexting is all about getting to the point, but if that’s your perception on sexting, then you’re missing out on powerful sexting technique: building sexual tension. It’s the perfect way to get your man quivering with excitement and desperate to see you by sending him…”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, Patience, sexual tension
“I know sexting is informal, but you should still pay attention to your spelling and your grammar. If he has to reread a sentence ten times in order to understand what you’re trying to say, he’s going to lose his hard-on.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: sexting, Grammar, Spelling
“To eliminate the odds that the wrong set of eyes sees them (and hacks or forwards the thread so total strangers read them too), hit delete.”— Marie Gartee, shape.comTagged: sexting, delete, Safety
“Don't dive into the digital dance of depravity without first deciding what you want the end result to be. Do you want to meet up that night for some nooky? Just looking for a sext buddy? It's all good, but having a clear idea of what you want to get out of the experience makes it easier to set bound…”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, one-night stand, boundaries
“Don't send him a dirty picture just because you’re worried he’ll stray. If he’s into you, he won’t.”— Maria Loren, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: sexting, dirty pictures, nudes
“Calling certain body parts by their scientifically correct names makes them sound like a disease. Saying labia over pussy is completely fine–it’s whatever works for you. However, there is a fine line where maybe you should use slang terms, or consider not saying the anatomically correct name at all.…”— Gina Escandon, hercampus.comTagged: sexting, Body, Anatomy, crude
“Add voice memos of things, like you moaning his name. Bring in all the components you can. Make your sexts a full sensory experience.”— Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, voice memos, voice mail
“There are apps for sexting. Ever see Kik or Yak attached to someone's Instagram or Twitter profile? Like Snapchat, these apps are used internationally to help some people keep in touch, but they also make it easy to send sexts to your European lover.”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: sexting, apps, Snapchat, kik, yak