“Lie down together in a 69 position, kissing each other’s breasts. You can rub your breasts against each other and mimic each other’s actions. This is a perfect technique to intensify your passions before you move on to other positions.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: Lesbian, breasts, 69ing
“Mouths aren’t just for oral sex! They’re for talking, too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying things like, ‘Just FYI, I’ve never gone down on a vagina before.'”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, Honesty
“The Electric 69: Your basic 69, but with vibrators in place of tongues. Get up close and personal.”— Samantha Allen, thedailybeast.comTagged: Lesbian, 69ing, tongue, Vibrators
“Nothing is sexier than confidence. NOTHING.”— Aly Walansky, yourtango.comTagged: Lesbian, Confidence, beauty, Sexy
“We tend to cut our nails short and keep them that way. Though if you’re a fashion femme (like myself) and your partner doesn’t like you to penetrate her with your fingers, you can keep them long and glam. You just have to make sure you’re using the outside of your finger when stimulating your partne…”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Lesbian, nails, clitoris
“Scissoring is when the partners come together, one on top, with their legs splayed (you know, like scissors) in order to align their genitals for the best possible contact to stimulate them using friction. I made it just sound as clinical AF but it is actually intensely hot.”— Rebecca Jane Stokes, yourtango.comTagged: Lesbian, Scissoring, genitals, stimulation
“Whether it’s a dildo, vibrator, or fingers, lesbian sex can also include the back door.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.comTagged: Lesbian, Anal Sex, dildo, vibrator
“Start gentle – some women's boobs are more sensitive than others. Cup them delicately, trace them lightly with your fingers, kiss them softly... Try not to grab. If all is going well, then try licking her nipples, using circular movements interspersed with sucking (not too hard).”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.ukTagged: Lesbian, breasts, Kissing, sucking
“Don’t limit yourself to the common erogenous zones on the female body. There are so many more pleasure-oozing areas than just her clit and neck.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.comTagged: Lesbian, clitoris, neck, Pleasure
“I only have one tip: Let your hair sort of trace her back longitudinally from her buttcheeks up to her neck, then carry on with whatever. I fucking go insane.”— Riese, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, hair, Sex
“You don’t have to spill your entire story to your hook-up partner, but if you want to go further than just a little making out, you may want to consider sharing that it’s your first time with a woman. Whatever you decide, be respectful and kind to the gal you’re messing around with. Don’t make her f…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Lesbian, Honesty, hookups
“We can stimulate the clitoris with our fingers, hands, mouths and even other parts of our bodies.”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.comTagged: Lesbian, clitoris, hands, Mouths
“Stop being so damn insecure. Seriously. You are not fat. You are beautiful. Your toes and finger nails don't have to match color.”— Aly Walansky, yourtango.comTagged: Lesbian, Confidence, Insecure, beauty
“Stroke her all over her body, from her face to her breasts, to her butt, and to her thighs. You can take your time and kiss each other as you explore each other’s bodies.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: Lesbian, touching, breasts, thighs, Kissing
“Spooning involves one partner lying behind the other and holding them. Reaching to finger, caress breasts or enter with a toy from behind are then all on the menu.”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.ukTagged: Lesbian, spooning, cuddling
“Fisting is actually just the insertion of four fingers into the vagina, slowly and steadily with the thumb working the clitoris. Fist has such a violent connotation.”— Rebecca Jane Stokes, yourtango.comTagged: Lesbian, Fisting, Vagina, clitoris
“Double-enders are proof that there is a god. One end in you, one in her – rock 'n' roll!”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.ukTagged: Lesbian, sex toys, dildos
“Too many porn films seem to have given the people the idea what we do little more than brush each other’s hair and cuddle. But queer women fuck. We have the hot, sweaty, nasty, delicious sex that has nothing to do with billowing curtains and satin sheets.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.comTagged: Lesbian, Porn, Cuddle, Fucking
“Having (essentially) a rod like thing thrust in and out of you is good, don’t get me wrong, but usually the curl of a perfectly placed finger is much, much better, as you probably know or can imagine.”— Kate Bailey, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Lesbian, penis, fingers
“If you remember only ONE thing, remember that that weird sucking thing you do hurts, and blowing into a vagina is a really bad idea.”— Kelly McClure, vice.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, sucking
“Using pillows or furniture to get the perfect position is a great way to go. Or you can have them sit on your face if your neck gets tired.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, pillows, Comfort
“Yes, you need to talk about STDs. Lesbians get them and give them to other women.”— Mary Gorham Malia, datingadvice.comTagged: Lesbian, STD, Sex, disease
“Some women can only get off with a vibrator or other sex toy. Some women prefer to. Some women just really like vibrators or dildos included sometimes. Some women prefer not using them, or sometimes don't want to use them.”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.comTagged: Lesbian, Vibrators, sex toys
“Take the time to read her a sexy story and get both your imaginations and your juices flowing.”— Kathy Belge, lesbianlife.about.comTagged: Lesbian, erotica, Reading, Stories
“If you want even more of a trial run before doing anything physical, try flirting with women out in public or putting a profile up on an online dating site. See how taking these additional steps makes you feel.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Lesbian, Flirting, Dating sites
“The Figure 8: Lie on top of your partner and penetrate each other with your fingers simultaneously.”— Samantha Allen, thedailybeast.comTagged: Lesbian, fingering, Sex, penetration
“Touch her all over and don’t just lunge for her crotch. Slow yourself down and really enjoy the experience. Slowly take her clothes off.”— Mary Gorham Malia, datingadvice.comTagged: Lesbian, touching, undressing, Vagina
“A good way to learn more about vaginas is by putting a mirror between your legs and having a good look. Women's outer vaginas vary in appearance (so don't be shocked if hers doesn't look much like yours at all) but delve a little deeper and you'll find the important bits are generally in a similar a…”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.ukTagged: Lesbian, Vagina, Sex
“Don't pull out 'moves.' Be earnest and calm. I'd say that until you can gauge by moans and whimpers what they like the best (which hopefully you will, unless the girl makes zero noises, which sucks) just start by making your tongue really soft and wide, flatten it out on the pussy, and then proceed…”— Kelly McClure, vice.comTagged: Lesbian, oral, Sex, Patience
“As you eat your partner, use one hand to please her. You can stimulate her clitoris with your tongue as you finger her with one or two *or more* fingers, or you can alternate, penetrating her with your tongue as you gently rub her clitoris with your thumb.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: Lesbian, clitoris, fingering, oral