“Start off with just a little hand play. Slowly touch the top of her with your hands LIGHTLY over her underwear. Take her underwear off. Go back up to the top and kiss her on the mouth again, and then kiss her entire body, slowly and sensually.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Oral Sex, hands, Underwear
“There are so many things you can do with your tongue that you've got no excuse not to try different techniques and see what she likes. You can make your tongue flat, pointy, stiff, or soft, you can draw circles, suck, or flick... the list goes on.”— Zeynep Yenisey, maxim.com
“Know that trick you read where spelling the alphabet on her ladybits with your tongue is the best thing ever? It’s not. It’s just weird.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: Oral Sex, tongue, licking
“Set up a feedback system, like having your partner pull on your hair if she likes what you're doing and pat you if she doesn't.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.comTagged: Oral Sex, Communication, rewards
“Try swirling your tongue around her clitoris in small circles, clockwise and then counter-clockwise. You’ll find the right spot, guaranteed.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.comTagged: Oral Sex, licking, clitoris
“Try the reverse hug technique. This shouldn't be too hard if you're in good shape. You'll need to hold her upside down in front of you. Her head and shoulders should rest on the bed, and her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that she won't feel too much pressure a…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, sex techniques
“Once you take her over the top, don’t evacuate the premises—she may be up for round two (or three).”— Laura Tedesco, menshealth.comTagged: Oral Sex, multiple orgasms, orgasm
“It’s really important to use the flatter and softer part of your tongue – especially at the start when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the additional pressure and speed that the tip can bring.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.comTagged: Oral Sex, tongue, arousal, pressure, speed
“I suggest that you turn your mouth, or your whole body, sideways to meet it where it is – and make out with it. Soft kisses at first, all over. Then, bring the tongue in, lightly at first – keeping your lips glued to hers, literally just like you were kissing her real mouth. Let the tongue go deeper…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.comTagged: Oral Sex, Kissing, licking
“Let her sit on your face. There is more than one position to lick pussy. My favorite is being eaten out from behind. He thinks me in starfish is the only way. I also like to sit on his face, either upright or on all fours. Other positions that would be fun include sitting in a chair, lying with pelv…”— Bianca Bui, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, Experimentation
“Hey, guys, you know how it doesn’t feel that great when a girl goes down on you after spending a week in the Sahara without water or, like, a stick of gum? It’s always smart to hydrate beforehand.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, hydrate, Water
“Don't approach it like you are doing her a favor. You're going down on her, not reluctantly skipping your fantasy sports game to go to her zitty cousin's graduation dinner.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Oral Sex, favors, Enthusiasm
“Watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.”— Debby Herbenick, menshealth.comTagged: Oral Sex, orgasm, contractions
“Take your time! Guys are always rushing through this and trying to get right to the sex before it’s time! Make her orgasm first, so you can fuck her silly after. She will enjoy sex so much better when she’s properly warmed up!”— Tasha Reign, brobible.comTagged: Oral Sex, Patience, orgasm
“A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, licking
“Don’t be afraid of breaking out the vibrator! It can be an invaluable tool to the art of oral. The average woman takes 20 minutes to climax from oral sex, so you’re going to be there for a while. There’s no shame in implementing the help of a tried-and-true toy.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.comTagged: Oral Sex, vibrator, sex toys
“The key is to breathe in through your mouth and out through your nose. If you can learn circular breathing (something musicians who play instruments that require breath know), you can go down on a girl for hours without having to come up for air. It’s actually reverse circular breathing. To make sur…”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.comTagged: Oral Sex, breathing, clitoris
“Try pressing your lips right up against my bald pussy so that your tongue doesn’t have to strain out. And get your nose in there, too. Get dirty. You can wash my juices off later.”— Bianca Bui, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, licking, tongue
“Reach one arm under her leg and around over her stomach. Let it rest on her pubic hair.”— Eli Walton, lovepanky.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex position, pubic hair
“If she senses you're feeling the least bit obligated or bored, she will shut down. Please be aware of how vulnerable she may feel lying there with her legs spread and try to be very complimentary and enthusiastic.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.comTagged: Oral Sex, Boredom, compliments
“You might be looking at 10, 20, 30 minutes (depending on your partner), so be ready. If you do want to take a break, don't be too abrupt about it. Instead, transition to something else, like kissing or massaging other parts of her body.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.comTagged: Oral Sex, Kissing, massaging
“Once you make it to her clit and vagina, gently lick all around. Direct stimulation can be too intense for some, so explore the surrounding area. Ask her where she likes to be touched. You don't have to be rough with your mouth unless she wants you to. It's always best to start off slow, unless she…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.comTagged: Oral Sex, rough, licking, direct stimulation
“Tell your girl she’s beautiful, and let her know how into it you are, too. That’ll go a long way.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: Oral Sex, compliments, beauty, Comfort
“My clitoris is a sensitive creature. Please do not tongue-punch her as if you’re trying to retrieve a very stubborn sprinkle from a tub of molasses.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, licking, clitoris
“Make sure your tongue is as consistent and active as you would want her to be when she goes down on you. Follow the same pattern, over and over again, with a hint of variety for fun.”— Tasha Reign, brobible.comTagged: Oral Sex, licking, Patterns, Variety
“Try wetting your finger with her vaginal juices, then slowly easing it into her. You can move your hand in and out, or make a ‘come here’ motion that will stroke her G-spot. You can also use a finger to trace the folds of her labia, or use your hands to pull her labia further apart, or to stroke her…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Oral Sex, penetration, g-spot
“Your partner probably knows the position that’s most comfortable for her to be in, but if she’s open to suggestions, put a pillow under her butt to lift her pelvis up, which will give you great leverage—and make her feel fantastic.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, pillows, Sex
“You must listen to her body. Don’t just recklessly start playing around with something because your last girl liked it. We all have different sensitivity levels and triggers spots.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Oral Sex, Listening, Exes, Sensitivity
“Pay attention to what she’s doing. If she’s squirming, moaning, and clawing at the sheets, congratulations! Keep up the good work. If she looks bored, she probably is, which means it’s time to employ a different technique.”— Zeynep Yenisey, maxim.comTagged: Oral Sex, Listening, pay attention
“Now if you really want to take things up a notch, and you’re pretty open-minded sexually, consider lick around her other hole while you are down there. Rimming will give her multiple sensations, and you will prove your commitment to her naked body!”— Tasha Reign, brobible.comTagged: Oral Sex, anal, rimming