“When giving a woman oral sex, try to get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, hands
“When I receive oral, I love when a guy locks his arms around my legs, like I can’t escape the pleasure.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, rough
“You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will like this, some won’t. And even a girl that likes it one day may not the next day.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.comTagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, sucking
“A surprising number of people don’t know this – but the clit isn’t just a little button floating in the pussy. The button is connected to a shaft – much like the penis. It’s incredibly stimulating to have a finger on each side of the shaft rubbing up and down – just as you would do to a penis. (Up a…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.comTagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, licking
“That five o'clock shadow that looked super hot on you while we were at dinner does not feel hot when it is brushing against the sensitive petals of a lady's Wonder Orchid. Furthermore, spin class with crotchal beard-burn hurts like a motherfucker. Be more considerate!”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Oral Sex, beard, scratching, shaving
“You can tell how excited a girl is by putting your finger down there. Is she wet? She should be dripping by now... and if she isn’t, keep teasing, boys.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.comTagged: Oral Sex, foreplay, wet, teasing
“Not too much chin, please. Overly chinny oral sex for women is like overly toothy oral sex for men.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Oral Sex, chins, Mistakes
“When you get into a good rhythm and she’s about to orgasm, resist the urge to speed up or change anything. Trust that you both communicate honestly enough that she'll tell you if something's not working.”— Zeynep Yenisey, maxim.comTagged: Oral Sex, orgasm, Communication, Trust
“Keep reminding that she looks, smells, and tastes amazing at each step of the process. The more at ease she feels, the more she’ll be able to enjoy herself.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: Oral Sex, compliments, Comfort
“You must start off in a teasing manner in the beginning. A slight lick of the tongue going up and down is good, licking the thighs at first and then slowly starting to move down, gaining intensity and speed.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.comTagged: Oral Sex, teasing, licking, speed
“During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the s…”— Debby Herbenick, menshealth.comTagged: Oral Sex, breasts, foreplay, turn on
“Eye contact! It’s the most important part and can feel really intimidating, but if you can stomach to look your partner in the eye, it really makes all the difference!”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.comTagged: Oral Sex, Eye Contact, Intimacy
“The foreplay we want is probably four times longer than you think. Quick suggestions: necking, kissing, flesh grabbing, kneading ass cheeks (especially when it makes our outer lips part), kissing ears, ear nibbling, breast play, nipple play, running hands over back of calves and behind knees, showin…”— Bianca Bui, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, Kissing, foreplay, sucking
“Take your time getting there. Unless it’s one of those intense sexual hook-ups where the throw-down is in over-drive or you only have 10 minutes until the kids come home from school, don’t go straight for the goods. Take some time to kiss her whole body, every once in a while brush by her pussy – wi…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.comTagged: Oral Sex, teasing, Patience
“Trim your nails! Trim your goddamn nails.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Oral Sex, nails, hygiene
“Clitorises can vary greatly between women. Some are quite big, others tiny. But they’ll always be in the same place so it’s just a matter of knowing where to look. As it becomes more stimulated, it will swell and become more prominent. With the hand you wrapped around her leg and placed on her stoma…”— Eli Walton, lovepanky.comTagged: Oral Sex, clitoris, stimulation
“This is not fast food. This is a gourmet restaurant and she wants you to savor every moment. Kiss and nibble her inner thighs, use your lips or your breath on her labia.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.comTagged: Oral Sex, Kissing, nibbling, breathing
“Include light hair pulling, nipple massaging, and gentle scratching along your partner's torso.”— Taylor Kubota, mensjournal.comTagged: Oral Sex, hair pulling, massaging, scratching
“While we know you want to use every tool you’ve got when you’re down there, never, ever use your teeth.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: Oral Sex, teeth, Mistakes
“Another fun oral position to try is "under the sink." She stands right next to the side of the bed and squats down a little. There should just be enough room for you to lay on your back on the bed and place your head between her legs. She is mostly in control of her own pleasure. She can squat furth…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.comTagged: Oral Sex, sex positions, bedroom