“Begin by gently kissing and fondling the area around the anus including the perineum (that area of skin between the genitals and the anus). Work your way in to the anus by circling your tongue around the outer area. You can suck and nibble the anus directly before going in to insert your tongue into…”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, Kissing, licking
“You’ll will find that after a few minutes of giving your man a rim job with your tongue, it will start to get tired. To give it a rest, start using your lips instead. Again try to use a lot of saliva as it feels more enjoyable than dry kisses.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.comTagged: rimming, saliva, Kisses
“Press your flattened tongue against the opening and hold it, then slowly start to move it in up and down or an in and out massage.”— Tiny Nibbles, tinynibbles.comTagged: rimming, tongue, licking, massage
“While rimming can be orgasmic, it doesn’t actually give an orgasm. However, it can be that extra oomph that makes an O ecstatic. It is also essential step if you’re gonna shove anything bigger than a finger up there.”— Doctor V., thefrisky.comTagged: rimming, orgasm, foreplay
“Using a dental dam or even plastic wrap as a barrier can help you be sure that you don't contract or give your partner any STDs.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, STDs, Dental Dam
“Don't suffocate in the booty. You'll be working hard down there, trying to breathe through your nose as your lips and tongue do the work. Take a minute to catch your breath and make it about your partner.”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: rimming, breathing, Patience
“Put your partner at ease and try to make sure they are completely relaxed and fully aroused. All anal play is easier if your partner is already hugely turned on, so get them half way there before you try your hand (or mouth) at rimming. Women often find anal play easier and more comfortable once the…”— Love Honey, lovehoney.co.ukTagged: rimming, turned on, Horny
“Because this act doesn’t involve the typical body parts we involve in sex, it’s good to have hands free for stimulation of other erogenous zones either by hand or small vibrator.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.comTagged: rimming, vibrator, sex toys
“After everything has been rinsed and razored, lay your lover down on their stomach, and begin to massage their bum cheeks. After a while, start gently pulling the buttocks apart so the anus is exposed and your fingers are gradually getting closer to it.”— Alix Fox, thedebrief.co.ukTagged: rimming, massage, anal
“Shave that butt hole. Even if you think you don't have any hair back there, trust me there's the one stray that got away. Having a smooth posterior heightens your sphincter's sensitivity to touch.”— Sam Phillips, laweekly.comTagged: rimming, Butts, anal
“With his taint (more properly known as the perineum). This is the entire zone between his anus and his balls (if it ain't the balls and it ain't the anus, it's the taint). It’s not an area that typically gets a ton of attention, but there are a number of nerve endings there. Plus, the sensation some…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: rimming, Perineum, balls
“Go easy. It’s also worth noting that rimming doesn’t have to involve super-deep tonguing.”— Ross Benes, nymag.comTagged: rimming, Patience, gentle
“Doggie-style licking is ideal because it also provides a fantastic rear view, and you can squeeze, rub and pull on other areas as you lick.”— Tiny Nibbles, tinynibbles.comTagged: rimming, Doggie Style, sex positions
“No, it doesn't taste bad. As long as it's clean, at least. The anus has no different of a taste than other parts of the genital area.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, taste, cleanliness
“You can wipe all you want, but best practice requires soap and water. Remnants are not desired. If you can’t handle a good thorough clean, at least get yourself some baby wipes and run a couple past your ass.”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: rimming, hygiene, cleanliness
“Make sure there's open communication. Don't be shy to ask questions.”— Levi Michaels, buzzfeed.comTagged: rimming, Communication, Questions
“Unless you are using a dental dam or a facsimile, once your lips and tongue have touched the anus, you don't want to put them anywhere else until you're done.”— Selena Kitt, literotica.comTagged: rimming, touching, STDs
“While your are using your tongue on your man’s anus, you can slowly and quite softly drag your hands over your mans ass cheeks, so that your nails are slowly and gently scratching it. This only provides a small amount of stimulation, but when coupled with your tongue techniques, it feel really nice…”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.comTagged: rimming, scratching, stimulation
“Take it slow. Some recipients enjoy having their partner plunge into analingus. But unless they specifically request it, you should approach this highly sensitive area slowly. Massage, kiss, and lick the person's lower back, thighs, hips, and buttocks as you slowly work your way towards his or her a…”— My Pleasure, mypleasure.comTagged: rimming, Patience, massage, Kissing
“The next preparatory technique is I kiss my lover's ass all around, nice and slow, while occasionally inserting my tongue just inside the crack in mostly a teasing manner. Making smacking sounds with slow kisses so he can get an added audible stimulation is always a good thing. Lots of licking will…”— Mark Lazer, literotica.comTagged: rimming, Kissing, teasing