“Under the restaurant table, in the car, or wherever—a swiftly administered hand job or blowjob leaves him in no doubt as to what the evening is to entail. Very naughty and very horny.”— Zenobia Bel, ethiogrio.comTagged: initiate sex, handjob, blowjob
“When you get the thought, pounce on it (and pounce on HIM, too!) Start kissing him. Let your hands wander pretty much immediately (seriously–women don’t like guys to GO FOR IT right away, so we often assume men need the lead up, too. They don’t. Just zero in!). Don’t second guess yourself. You’ll be…”— Sheila Wray Gregoire, tolovehonorandvacuum.comTagged: initiate sex, first move, straddling
“One almost sure-fire way to get a guy hard doesn’t even involve touching him. Many guys go wild when they see their loves, whether they’re female or male, touch themselves.”— Lyndsie Robinson, allwomenstalk.comTagged: initiate sex, masturbation, touch yourself
“Leave a sexy prop, like the vibe you like to use together or warming lube, on his pillow to signal your interest. If he asks you about it, just wink…and then go for it.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: initiate sex, props, hints, lube, sex toys
“Send your guy a text when you know he’s wrapping up for the day to give him a taste of what’s to come. You can do it with words (‘Come find me when you get home. I’ll be in the bedroom…;)’) or via a sexy close-up pic, like one of your lacy bra peeking out of your low-cut top.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: initiate sex, sexting, Texting, nudes
“Just telling a man ‘I want you’ can do all kinds of things for his ego.”— Adrienne Mansfield, mandecoder.comTagged: initiate sex, compliments, Ego
“Undress him. Bit by bit or tearing off his clothes — whatever floats your boat.”— J. Parker, hotholyhumorous.comTagged: initiate sex, undressing, clothing
“Set the stage: light candles, turn on some music and come out of the shower dressed in something sexy. If you do not have lingerie, a pair of heels and nothing else works well.”— Jessica O'Reilly, eligiblemagazine.comTagged: initiate sex, candles, set the mood, lingerie, Heels
“It may be hard for you to come right out and say ‘I want you’ but you can show it by sitting close and placing your hand in between his legs, giving him a massage or kissing his neck. If he doesn’t seem to be getting the message or isn’t responding, be more aggressive with your actions by nibbling o…”— Eileen Bailey, healthcentral.comTagged: initiate sex, first move, massage, Kisses
“Beg. This really doesn't need much of an explanation.”— Amanda Chatel, yourtango.comTagged: initiate sex, beg, Begging
“The tongue is so suggestive of sex, and you can use it in many different ways to get your guy horny. Licking your lips, the rim of your glass, your fingers… any one of these will have him horny as hell.”— Zenobia Bel, ethiogrio.comTagged: initiate sex, tongues, Lips, seduction
“Never be scared to just rip all your clothes off as soon as you get in the door.”— John Ortved, glamour.comTagged: initiate sex, clothing, Naked, undressing
“You know that if you touch your man’s stuff, he’s going to get excited. Rather than going right for the hot button, though, touch him everywhere else. Again, the anticipation will get him hard in no time.”— Lyndsie Robinson, allwomenstalk.comTagged: initiate sex, Anticipation, teasing
“Never underestimate the power of massage. Invite him to simply strip down and submit to your ministrations as his sexy masseuse. Use the right kind of oil and the right amount of pressure to ensure that the massage has a ‘happy ending’ for both of you!”— Sobiya N Moghul, indiatimes.comTagged: initiate sex, massage, happy ending
“If you have even one sexual tingle, mention it to your husband. If it happens during the day when you’re apart, text him to let him know.”— Chris Taylor, forgivenwife.comTagged: initiate sex, Horny, turned on
“Get dressed, or get undressed, right in front of him. Make sure you do it slowly and make eye contact with him, so he knows you’re in a frisky mood.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: initiate sex, clothing, dressing, undressing
“Don’t like talking about sex? You don’t have to. Come up behind him, wrap your arms around him, start nibbling his ear, and let your hands wander.”— Sheila Wray Gregoire, tolovehonorandvacuum.comTagged: initiate sex, Action, hands, Sex
“When you’re out with your man in public, perhaps on the bus on the way home, randomly lean in to give him a lingering peck on the cheek or neck and whisper seductively in his ear that your not wearing any underwear.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, public, kiss, seduction
“If you really want to get your man's blood boiling, just start the dirty talk. While most of the time, it's saved for behind closed doors, why not bring it out into the open when it's just the two of you? Let him know how much you want him.”— Heather Jensen, love.allwomenstalk.comTagged: initiate sex, dirty talk, talk dirty
“Unleash your inner bad girl and be the little sl*t on stage. Put him in a chair, turn on some music and slowly and seductively dance around him while removing your clothing one piece at a time.”— Christina Debusk, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, Stripping, strip tease, undressing