50 Tips That'll Keep Him Cumming Back For More

“Let me be perfectly clear and say that you absolutely do not have to emulate porn in order to satisfy your guy. But if you’re comfortable with it (or even turned on by it), inviting him to come somewhere on you is… really nice.”

— Scott Alden, thefrisky.com

“Figure out what part of your body is his favorite and pick positions that highlight it. Cowgirl for your boobs, reverse cowgirl for your ass, standing while grabbing your ankles for your back, kneeling together for your hair. It’ll be fun for him and make you feel extra hot knowing that he’s getting…”

— Lola Black, thoughtcatalog.com

“If you really want a guy to climax and climax stat, grab his butt and pull him deeper into you. It will also make his orgasm better, especially if you clench your vaginal muscles around his penis.”

— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com

“There are some positions that give deeper penetration and heightened sensitivity, making it more likely that he’ll cum. The obvious one would be the doggy position.”

— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com

“To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come.”

— Mark Michaels, shape.com

“Make sure your breasts are looking their best! You can go for sexy lingerie, bras that give you lots of sumptuous cleavage, bras that are made of sheer material so that he can see your erect nipples poking through.”

— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.com

“Gently gripping a man's testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure.”

— Brendan Tapley, womansday.com

“Ladies, grab your boyfriend’s dick and use that bad sucker to rub your clit. It’s fantastic foreplay for both of you. You get to use his penis as your own personal sex toy while taking control, and he gets to watch you squirm.”

— Gigi Engle, elitedaily.com

“Blindfolding your partner with a scarf or tie is a great way to begin because whenever you take away one sense, the others senses become more heightened.”

— Emily Morse, harpersbazaar.com

“Sometimes, though, it’s the simple things that drive him wild: kissing the inside of his thigh, licking his earlobes, tickling his balls. These small acts can make all the difference. Discovering what makes your partner crazy with pleasure is a learning curve, so treat every sex session as a fun exp…”

— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com

“Men are erotic visualists, more intensely aroused by visual stimulation than women are. Some men say that watching a woman climax is the ultimate form of arousal for them.”

— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com

“Grab the muscles on his arms or his legs and squeeze. Show him that you appreciate how hard he works out and that you think his body is drop dead gorgeous.”

— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com

“The longer it takes, the better it is. Unless it takes forever. The happy medium here is to try to get a guy close to coming as quickly as you can, then tease him once he’s there to extend the experience.”

— Scott Alden, thefrisky.com

“Many women forget that guys adore seeing their girlfriend or partner get off. So the next time you are in a girl on top sex position stop thinking about whether or not you are pleasing your man. Instead just focus on what feels best for you.”

— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com

“When he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along the fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.”

— Holly C. Corbett, shape.com

“If you’re with a man who enjoys this, start by stroking around the aureole and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers. Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too.”

— Claire Cavanah, shape.com

“Slowly use your hand to guide his hard penis into your vagina. Savor it. Move up and down until you have teased the head of his penis through the entrance of your vagina. Enjoy those sensations. Remember if you feel good, the chances are so does he!”

— Scarlett Robbinson, youqueen.com

“Sexting, if you haven't done it yet, is, in one word, fantastic. It's basically the technological version of foreplay, and a perfect way to get both you and your partner in the mood.”

— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com

“You know how awesome sex feels when your guy takes his time to really rev you up beforehand? Well, experts say foreplay is just as important to maxing out his pleasure, too, since a slow mental build-up will intensify his arousal by megawatts. Jumpstart his libido with a few sensual kisses, then dra…”

— Kelly Thore, cosmopolitan.com

“Moan. Don’t exaggerate the sounds. Just let them fly from your mouth naturally. It’ll sound way hotter than fake moans do.”

— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com

“Obviously, if your partner is dying to have a threesome and you're not into it, then it's perfectly justified to say no. But when it comes to new tricks, tips, and techniques, we suggest giving it shot.”

— Casey Gueren, womenshealthmag.com

“An element of sexual surprise can produce a powerful climax. Sometimes you need to cut through all the chaos and clutter of modern life. Anything from job pressure to money woes to kid problems to bedroom boredom can come between you and your man's deepest passions. Spontaneity can help bring him to…”

— Robert Hamilton, redbookmag.com

“Enthusiasm. Aggression. Hair-pulling. Mine, hers, all of the above!”

— Shanna Yehlen, glamour.com

“Maybe your guy will orgasm in 3 minutes or it might take him 30. If your man needs a little bit longer to pop his peach, coming up for a kiss when your lips get tired or when you lose stamina is a good way to keep the illusion of enthusiasm without actually getting bored down yonder.”

— Heather Hailey, thoughtcatalog.com

“Don’t be afraid to look him straight in the eye. Establishing this kind of connection in the woman on top sex position can be incredibly hot, and it gives you the opportunity to communicate with him through facial expressions, dirty talk, or even just a simple smile that reminds you that it’s still…”

— Scarlett Robbinson, youqueen.com

“If he's having trouble getting a firm erection, rub a small amount of oil or lubricant onto your palms and put one hand firmly around the base of his penis. Work the other hand from the base up to the head in a circular, twisting motion, as if you were following a winding staircase up his appendage.…”

— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com

“Don’t forget about your hands. Trace his body with your fingers, hold down his arms when you’re on top, tangle your hands in his hair.”

— Lola Black, thoughtcatalog.com

“Even if you're having amazing sex on a regular basis, the key to maintaining it is to switch up your sexual repertoire. Start by thinking of a few things you've always wanted to try but have been too shy, too busy or too stressed to actually put into action.”

— Emily Morse, harpersbazaar.com

“We see the arm of a couch, you see a great prop for doggie style. We see a bra, you see a bondage tool. Being creative and looking for new ways to spice things up is crucial in a lover.”

— Casey Gueren, womenshealthmag.com

“Do not put my old man in a death grip and pull it so furiously that it feels like being trapped in a threshing machine. Don’t hold on for dear life. I’m lying flat on your futon. I’m going nowhere.”

— Gavin James Bower, sabotagetimes.com