“Touch your clitoris during sex (or have your guy do it).”— Jessica Knoll, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, clitoris, touch yourself
“Placing a couple pillows under your hips will work wonders. It basically changes the angle of penetration.”— Spencer Althouse, buzzfeed.comTagged: orgasm, pillow, angles
“If you’re getting close, make sure your partner doesn’t change their rhythm.”— Spencer Althouse, buzzfeed.comTagged: orgasm, rhythm, Thrusts
“Lock eyes. It sends the message that you're really into him and keeps your arousal high because your guy is mirroring his desire back at you. Ease into it by meeting his gaze for a few seconds and giving a sexy smile, then build up to longer eye contact.”— Korin Miller, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, Weight, self-conscious
“You might want to consider lube as a necessity rather than just an added bonus”— Anonymous, womenshealthmag.comTagged: orgasm, lube, lubrication
“Toys, especially vibrators, provide a stimulation that even the most skilled fingers and tongue can’t, so there’s no shame in using a vibrator on your clitoris while your partner penetrates you.”— Amanda Chatel, bolde.comTagged: orgasm, sex toys, vibrator
“Since the average time spent in foreplay for couple sex is less than 10 minutes, we have one root cause of orgasmic issues right here. For most women full, deep and complete arousal can take up to 45 minutes. That’s right, 45 minutes!”— Sheri Winston, yourtango.comTagged: orgasm, foreplay, Patience
“Let your partner know when he’s on the right track, either by telling him what feels great or by moaning.”— Kara Jesella, health.comTagged: orgasm, moans, Communication
“You need a space that breathes sensuality to you. Experiment with different types of music, lighting, videos in the background, mirrors and so on. Creating an atmosphere that turns you on will make you feel equally inspired and at ease.”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.comTagged: orgasm, Relaxation, set the mood
“Going to town down there is great and all, but there are so many other overlooked erogenous zones that will only make your pleasure more intense. Ask your hubbie to kiss and graze his tongue along your upper thighs, back, shoulders, and earlobes, and you will be wound up like the tiger that you real…”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.comTagged: orgasm, erogenous zones, genitals
“Think of a hot scenario before and, yes, during sex.”— Jessica Knoll, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, Sex, fantasizing
“Woman-on-top is probably the easiest pose to get you off because you control the angle, depth, and speed and can easily touch yourself. To get clitoral stimulation, grind against his pubic bone. Varying the move may crank up the heat faster.”— Laura Gilbert, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, sex positions, cowgirl
“If you want to have an orgasm during intercourse, you will need to make sure you are sufficiently ‘turned on’ before intercourse happens. Whether this means that before you hop into bed with your lover, you read some of your favorite erotica, have some alone time in the bathtub to play with your duc…”— Cynthia Loyst, findyourpleasure.comTagged: orgasm, turned on, foreplay
“You can boost your chances of having an orgasm by choosing the right foreplay.”— Kate Moriarty, womenshealthmag.comTagged: orgasm, foreplay
“If you really want to have an orgasm during penetration, make sure your clitoris is involved and your head is in the game.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.comTagged: orgasm, clitoris, penetration
“Do you suck in your tummy when you're on top? Bad idea. That makes it harder to breathe deeply, which is a key to reaching orgasm.”— Korin Miller, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, Weight, self-conscious
“Really look at your partner, feel your skin being touched, and focus on incorporating your whole body instead of just your genitals. You may not discover enlightenment, but your orgasm will surely be profound.”— Rachel Zar, refinery29.comTagged: orgasm, senses, pay attention
“If you’ve experienced sexual abuse or trauma of any kind, you may find it hard to reach orgasm during sex. Even if you rationally understand that your boyfriend would never hurt you, your body may not be fully able to relax when you’re being intimate. One technique to help yourself feel more at ease…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: orgasm, Sexual Abuse, Lock Eyes
“Let an ancient sex stimulant work its magic: Warm some milk, add a pinch of saffron, and drink up.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.comTagged: orgasm, Aphrodisiac, food, orgasm, how to have an orgasm
“Relaxation is key. Unlike men who can have sex and reach orgasm anywhere, any time, any place, under any conditions, women are wired differently. If you aren't relaxed and detached from the stresses of the day, your chances of achieving orgasm are significantly decreased. Therefore, determine what c…”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.comTagged: orgasm, Relaxation, set the mood
“Research shows that engaging in thrill-seeking behaviors together (whether it’s rock climbing or just going to see a scary movie) stimulates dopamine in the brain, which gets your juices flowing.”— Kara Jesella, health.comTagged: orgasm, turn ons, Horny
“Don’t hold your breath or let anxiety tighten it up. Breathe into your pleasure, breathe into your body, keep it moving and you can breathe yourself right into a nice juicy orgasm. Keep breathing into it and your climax will be bigger and better.”— Sheri Winston, yourtango.comTagged: orgasm, breathing, Anxiety
“There is no one right way to play with your pelvic floor muscles, so experiment with lots of different actions. Squeeze, pull up, cinch together, flutter, vibrate, push, hold and release them as you see fit. Just get them involved and you’ll heighten your excitement, experience easier arousal and ex…”— Sheri Winston, yourtango.comTagged: orgasm, Pelvic Floor Muscles, kegels
“Once you begin to accept your yourself for who are, you will find yourself becoming less self-conscious and notice that it becomes easier to reach orgasm.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.comTagged: orgasm, Self-Love, Confidence
“Walk around in your lingerie, soak in a tub, or get a massage. When you give yourself this extra time, you will reconnect with your inner sensuality and hubbie, and that leads to major bow chica wow wow sex.”— Kayla Keegan, redbookmag.comTagged: orgasm, massage, lingerie
“Staying fit won't just make you more confident about yourself in the sack: Regular exercisers report being more sexually satisfied.”— Arielle Pardes, womenshealthmag.comTagged: orgasm, workouts, Exercise
“As you’re having sex, look at what your partner is doing to you, and narrate all of the action to yourself. For example, ‘he’s using his tongue to trace circles around my clitoris. Now he’s flicking my clitoris with the tip of his tongue.’ This suggestion might sound kind of silly, but it can be ext…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: orgasm, dirty talk, Sexy Thoughts
“Have him touch you all over during the deed: Rubbing your breasts, inner thighs, neck, etc., adds to the orgasm-inducing sensations.”— Laura Gilbert, cosmopolitan.comTagged: orgasm, touches, orders
“Spend some time on clitoral stimulation during foreplay, or try one of several topical oils or balms, like Zestra, designed to be applied directly to the clitoris.”— Rachel Zar, refinery29.comTagged: orgasm, clitoris, Oils
“Alcohol can certainly lower one’s sexual inhibitions, but it can also make it harder to achieve orgasm at all, and can decrease orgasm intensity when you do have one. If you’re trying to maximize your orgasm, stick to only a drink or two. Or better yet, have sex before you go out!”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.comTagged: orgasm, Drinking, Alcohol