“Start with the old hand-in-the-back-pocket move when you guys are hanging out at home, and give him a few squeezes.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: rimming, butt, Squeezing
“Use your breath. Gently blowing hot and cold air onto the area during oral sex can intensify the sensations and heighten nerve endings. Alternate licks and blows for incredible pleasure.”— Love Honey, lovehoney.co.ukTagged: rimming, BLowing, Breath
“Flavoured lubes serve a dual purpose: adding a dash to your lover’s ass provides extra slippery, slidey slickness to helps your fingers sensually glide over their skin, whilst also masking any inevitable not-so-yum natural bum scents and tastes.”— Alix Fox, thedebrief.co.ukTagged: rimming, lube, Flavored Lube
“Use your teeth. As long as you are only doing little nibbles or gentle love bites -- not hard chomps.”— Sam Phillips, laweekly.comTagged: rimming, Butts, teeth
“Moan your appreciation and see how your lover responds — moaning vibrates your tongue and simulates a vibrator.”— Tiny Nibbles, tinynibbles.comTagged: rimming, moaning, vibration
“Be up-front and open about what you’d like to do. As shocking as this may sound, not everyone enjoys giving or receiving a rim job, so talk about it in advance.”— Ross Benes, nymag.comTagged: rimming, Communication, Honesty
“Spit. Spit is magical. Since anuses don't self-lubricate I think it's best to start with spreading the cheeks with your hands and letting spit fall just above the hole and letting it run down.”— Levi Michaels, buzzfeed.comTagged: rimming, Spit, saliva, lube
“When it comes to the back-end and a little extra enjoyment, it's another great time for hands on the balls. Like usual, a little extra help in that area adds a lot of extra sensitivity that leads to that full-body good feeling.”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: rimming, balls, Sensitivity
“Make sure the receiver is totally comfortable. Lay him down and let him relax. Then spend some time exploring.”— Levi Michaels, buzzfeed.comTagged: rimming, Comfort, Relaxation
“All people have some hair around the anus. If you are performing analingus on a hairy guy, just part the hair with your hands so you have better access.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, hair, Hairy
“Get your man to simply stand up and then bend over so that he is grabbing his ankles. It’s fine for him to bend his knees to make it more comfortable.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.comTagged: rimming, sex positions, Bend Over
“Rim jobs aren’t just a gay thing. Gay guys are rimming each other, sure, but girlfriends are rimming girlfriends, boyfriends are rimming girlfriends, and girlfriends are rimming boyfriends.”— Madison Moore, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: rimming, sexuality, straight, gay
“It's good to start with kisses. Just feather little kisses around the anus. Pay attention to your lover's response. If they back away, start wide and circle in again. Sometimes you have to build up to it.”— Selena Kitt, literotica.comTagged: rimming, Kisses, Patience
“Try a bit of light spanking. Take note if he responds to this, but don't overdo it.”— Dave, manhuntdaily.comTagged: rimming, spanking, Butts
“Make sure he thoroughly wipes up with soap and water or uses an enema a couple hours before the RJ (rim job). A sexy way to incorporate this into sex is by taking a bath or shower together and soap up his booty yourself.”— Doctor V., thefrisky.comTagged: rimming, cleanliness, hygiene
“If you are curious about anal play but find rim jobs intimidating, you may want to start with fingering, anal massage, or using butt plugs.”— Keeley Rankin, bettersexed.orgTagged: rimming, butt plugs, massage
“You can still get STIs and infections hepatitis A, B, C, and HIV from rimming, so use protection.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, STDs, Protection
“If you’re really talented masturbate the other person or use a vibrator while you perform the rim job.”— Keeley Rankin, bettersexed.orgTagged: rimming, masturbation, vibrator
“Your tongue is one of the strongest muscles in your body. Alternate between a flat, wide tongue for gentle strokes and a stiff, pointed tip for pinpoint precision. Mix it up so your partner never knows what's coming next.”— Love Honey, lovehoney.co.ukTagged: rimming, tongue, Variety
“If you are much taller than him, put some pillows under his knees to raise him up. That is much better than if you stoop down because your own comfort will help you maintain your enthusiasm.”— Mark Lazer, literotica.comTagged: rimming, Height Differences, Comfort
“Massage and squeeze them together. Tap or smack the cheeks depending on the guy's preference. He may even like to be spanked. Be sure you vary all your hand techniques to heighten his sexual anticipation.”— Mark Lazer, literotica.comTagged: rimming, massage, Squeeze, spanking
“Personally, I like to have a guy on all fours or lying on his stomach. On the other hand, I certainly wouldn't turn down a guy who wanted to sit on my face. It's up to you!”— Dave, manhuntdaily.comTagged: rimming, doggy style, sex positions
“Rinse after. After analingus without a dam, be sure to rinse your mouth with an antiseptic mouthwash or, at the very least, water.”— My Pleasure, mypleasure.comTagged: rimming, cleanliness, hygiene
“Perhaps he would feel more comfortable if he knew that you promised not to tell anyone about it (not even your bff), or if the two of you explored in the shower (for easy, unembarrassing clean-up).”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.comTagged: rimming, anal, Secrets
“Try not to neglect the rest of your lover’s body while you’re concentrating on getting XXX-rated with their exit doors. Run your hands over their buttocks and down their legs; reach up and play with their nipples; and if you’re rimming your man while he’s laying face-down, try delicately pulling his…”— Alix Fox, thedebrief.co.ukTagged: rimming, touches, penis
“It might take a few tries to feel really comfortable with the whole BUTT thing.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: rimming, Time, Patience
“Sixty-nine. Compared with mutual oral-genital contact, mutual analingus requires somewhat more physical flexibility, but many people enjoy this position.”— My Pleasure, mypleasure.comTagged: rimming, 69ing, sex positions
“Start by licking the perineum (the area between the penis or vagina and anus) to get your partner used to the sensation. This area is particularly sensitive on the male body, and can bear strong pressure from your tongue.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.comTagged: rimming, licking, Perineum
“If you're both curious and interested, just not sure how to proceed, then talk about it. Who wants to give? Who wants to receive? Sometimes it's both of you, sometimes it's just one of you.”— Selena Kitt, literotica.comTagged: rimming, Communication, Questions
“Do not double dip. Don't ever put anything that's been in a behind into (or too close to) a vagina without sterilizing it. You can transfer dangerous bacteria and micro-organisms that can cause infections such as vaginitis and cystitis.”— Sam Phillips, laweekly.comTagged: rimming, Butts, Bacteria, Vagina