“Tell him what got you totally turned on the last time you were together. Maybe it was the way he sensuously ran his hands through your hair. Or the way he swirled his tongue on your clitoris when he went down on you…”— Amy Levine, womenshealthmag.comTagged: sexting, turn on, clitoris
“Use crude terms. No guy wants to hear about how badly you want to stick his penis in your mouth. He wants to hear about how you’re going to suck his cock until he cums.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: sexting, crude, Curses, dirty
“Talk about a memory. Can you recollect any sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you almost got caught, or the last time you gave him a road head?”— Morgan Miller, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, Memories, Stories
“Don't sext something you'd never actually say in real life. Be yourself.”— Ariel Nagi, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, Be yourself, Honesty
“If you’re going to be sending pictures, have a gallery ready and don’t send that full nude right away. It just ruins the whole suspense of the sexting. You have to set the stage, so to speak. Send pictures like you’re slowly undressing yourself for them in still frames, just like they would see you…”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, nudes, Photos, undressing
“Calm down Shakespeare, nobody has time to sit there and read the great American novel of all the things you want to do. Keep it short and sweet.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, concise, short and sweet
“You want to tempt your guy, so saying something like "When I get home I'm going to try out that sex toy with you" sounds like you're making dinner plans. Instead, have him guessing with something like: "I just bought something, and I think you'll drool when you see me in it tonight." We guanrantee h…”— Ariel Nagi, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, casual, Mystery
“Always text something that you really plan on doing, so there is follow through. Be imaginative, but don’t make it an utter fantasy or an empty promise”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, Honesty, Fantasy
“Say exactly what you mean, don't be vague. Sure, an "I miss you," text is nice, but if what you're actually missing are his hands squeezing your ass or his mouth on your boobs, then say that!”— Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, Details, dirty
“You don't need to jump in with anything extreme. Something that can read as innocent as I love the way your tongue feels on my skin obviously means a whole lot more.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.comTagged: sexting, innocent, dirty talk
“Touch yourself. If you’re going to sext, you might as well get an orgasm out of it. That’s the entire point. So slip under your covers with a vibrator and his sexts.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: sexting, touch yourself, masturbation
“Just like foreplay, sexting is all about the buildup. The longer it takes, the better. The prolonged anticipation will keep both you and your partner wanting more, and the two of you can keep going at it until you’re satisfied (wink wink).”— Gina Escandon, hercampus.comTagged: sexting, foreplay, Anticipation, Build Up
“The fun part of sexting is to be aggressive, not passive, so don't worry about what a "nice guy" would think. Believe me, even the nicest guys appreciate some naughty.”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, agressive, nice guys, naughty, sexting tips
“Thankfully, naked selfies aren’t the only type of picture that will keep your man happy. Lingerie, semi-naked selfies and any suggestive poses work great, too.”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.comTagged: sexting, nudes, Selfies, lingerie
“Be polite. We don’t mean saying please and thank you, but keep in mind that you’re still talking to a real person with feelings. Sexting is definitely not a situation where you should ever mock someone or make them feel insecure about what they’re saying.”— Gina Escandon, hercampus.comTagged: sexting, polite, friendly
“Don't just tell him what you're doing, tell him how it makes you feel, how it tastes, how it looks.”— Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.comTagged: sexting, description, Details
“Before you send a sext, keep in mind that there's potential for it to be shared amongst your guy's friends. Don't say anything too incriminating, and don't send something that you wouldn't want someone else to hear (or associate you with). Keep it tame if you're concerned.”— Jen Kirsch, yourtango.comTagged: sexting, shared, Safety
“Like you learned in English class, get descriptive. Build the image you want them to see. From the details of where you’d like to put your hands, to where you’d like them to put their mouth. Show, don’t tell. Use the five senses”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: sexting, descriptive, Details
“The thing about sexting is, it should happen in real time, meaning old photos originally saved on your iPhone 4s don't work. The most successful sexts are those that reference and take advantage of objects, body parts, and clothing you have in front of you in that moment. Just like if you were inter…”— Dana Cartwright, complex.comTagged: sexting, Photos, nudes
“Stir the pot slowly! Send something suggestive that could be construed as non-sexual, like a photo of you in bed with f*ck-me eyes captioned, ‘I’m tired,’ or one showing a teensy bit of evidence that your ‘tan lines from the beach are crazy...’ See where it goes from there.”— Brooke Sager, thrillist.comTagged: sexting, Patience, teasing
“Sexting is a two-way street requiring give and take. If they set the scene with, ‘I’m licking your chest and slowly moving downward...’ don’t reply, ‘And then?’ Um, and then it’s your move.”— Brooke Sager, thrillist.comTagged: sexting, give and take, replies, Conversation
“If you’re messaging photos to a non-significant other, don’t show your face. Don’t. Show. Your. Face.”— Brooke Sager, thrillist.comTagged: sexting, nudes, Photos, Safety
“Double-check the recipient before you hit "send," please.”— sexting, vice.comTagged: sexting, double check, cautious
“Y R U choosin 2 talk lik a tween? Who culd eva b trnd on by dis?? No one wants to be deciphering your sexual hieroglyphics when they could be quietly shifting in their lecture seat so the seam of their jeans hits things just right.”— sexting, vice.comTagged: sexting, Abbreviations, Grammar, Spelling
“If you're just starting out, three to four words are all you need. A length limit forces you to get straight to the point and eliminates the possibility of embarrassing yourself by using adjectives like "pulsing," which makes your pussy or dick sound like the still-beating heart of a butchered mamma…”— sexting, vice.comTagged: sexting, concise, adjectives, short and sweet
“If you've had some back and forth banter and then, out of nowhere, the recipient stops responding, let it go. If you text, "Why did you stop messaging?" "Where did you go?" or "Why did you leave me high and dry?" you not only come off looking desperate, but a bit aggressive, too.”— Jen Kirsch, yourtango.comTagged: sexting, Goodbyes, Desperate, aggressive
“Stay away from the corny lines. Unless you know your partner is going to find a certain line ridiculously sexy and turn them on immediately, don’t be cheesy.”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, corny, cliche
“Keep the ‘we’re not supposed to be doing this’ vibe in the air. This works best if the two of you are supposed to be otherwise occupied with work, meetings, at the doctor’s office, etc.”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, naughty, off limits
“Don’t sext while you’re drunk. Sexting only works when it’s enticing and even witty. It’s like mental foreplay with your guy. So never sext when you’re drunk because it probably won’t be as sexy as you imagined it in your head.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.comTagged: sexting, Drunk, drunk texting
“Seduce your partner with the promise of what's to come.”— Kimberly Truong, refinery29.comTagged: sexting, seduction, promises