“Whisper in his ear how badly you want him inside you, or stick you hand down his pants. If you really want to rock his world, wake him with a morning BJ.”— Adrienne Mansfield, mandecoder.comTagged: initiate sex, blowjob, first move, dirty talk
“Offer to give your partner a back rub and slowly work your way down the back to his butt, thighs, calves and ankles. As you massage him, allow your breasts or other soft spots to gently drape against his skin.”— Jessica O'Reilly, eligiblemagazine.comTagged: initiate sex, back rub, massage
“Guide his hand to your pussy, so he can see how wet you are.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: initiate sex, wet, turned on
“Remove your bra in his presence. Not really sure why this is so seductive — maybe it's the thought of them being just a bit closer to our breasts sans our bra — but if you remove your bra in front of him, then go back to what you're doing, he'll start thinking it's time for a romp.”— Amanda Chatel, yourtango.comTagged: initiate sex, undressing, bra, seductive
“If there’s nowhere else convenient to sit, then sit in his lap. Just make sure you execute the odd wiggle to pretend you are getting more comfortable and have the blood rushing to his nether regions at the same time.”— Zenobia Bel, ethiogrio.comTagged: initiate sex, sitting, straddle
“Go naked underneath a bathrobe and ‘flash’ him while he’s downstairs. Then walk away, and see if he follows.”— Sheila Wray Gregoire, tolovehonorandvacuum.comTagged: initiate sex, Naked, nude, flashing
“Men are visual creatures. Send him a series of sexy photos on his phone all afternoon. Make sure that each one you send is a little bit naughtier than the previous picture, to build his anticipation.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, nudes, Pictures, naughty
“Watch porn with him. Mimic the moves and do what the girl on the screen is doing. In his mind, he will be the guy on the TV and the star of his very own porn show.”— Christina Debusk, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, Porn, Pornography, Television
“Call him into the bedroom, so he can catch you masturbating. It’ll be an instant turn-on for him.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: initiate sex, masturbating, turn-on
“Slowly unbutton the top button of your blouse when you know your husband is looking, or hold his hand and walk him to the bedroom.”— Chris Taylor, forgivenwife.comTagged: initiate sex, dressing, undressing, clothing
“Schedule sex on the calendar. That may not sound sexy, but why not put on his and your calendars a date and time for sexual intimacy?”— J. Parker, hotholyhumorous.comTagged: initiate sex, schedule, calendar
“Bring home a bag of tricks. Hit up the sex toy store, and drop the bag of goodies in his lap.”— Amanda Chatel, yourtango.comTagged: initiate sex, sex toys, dildos
“Come up with a word or phrase that is a secret call for sex.”— Denise Schipani, womansday.comTagged: initiate sex, Words, phrase, Language, Secrets
“Leave a ‘bread crumb trail’ to the bedroom. Use anything from flower petals to bite-sized candies to love notes to draw him into the bedroom where you await.”— J. Parker, hotholyhumorous.comTagged: initiate sex, Flowers, Rose Petals
“Buy new undergarments. Go shopping for some sexy undies and bras and then show them off.”— Eileen Bailey, healthcentral.comTagged: initiate sex, Underwear, lingerie, bra
“Flirting is extremely underrated. No matter what, it will always have a place in intimate relationships. When you’re with your man, make sure to flirt – but do it with a promise.”— Lyndsie Robinson, allwomenstalk.comTagged: initiate sex, Flirting, flirty
“Put on a little show: Handcuff your man to the bed and indulge him in a private burlesque performance. A little session of ‘look but don’t touch’ and he’ll be rearing to go.”— Sobiya N Moghul, indiatimes.comTagged: initiate sex, Stripping, strip tease, handcuffs
“Giving him a compliment. It might be just as much of a turn on as giving him a blowjob (and less work).”— Michele Zipp, thestir.cafemom.comTagged: initiate sex, compliments, blowjob
“Leave a pair of sexy panties in his briefcase with a ‘See you tonight!’ message and then have a sexy night waiting for him.”— Patti Stanger, pattiknows.comTagged: initiate sex, Underwear, message, panties
“Does he desire a sexy nurse that is there to cure his every need? Or, is it a hot cop in a barely there uniform with cuffs and whips that excites him? Whatever it is that sends him from zero to sixty, do it. When he sees you playing the part that has been in his mind, unsatisfied up to that point, h…”— Christina Debusk, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, roleplay, cop, nurse, Sexy
“Instead of waiting for him to ask you for oral sex, just start doing it.”— Chris Taylor, forgivenwife.comTagged: initiate sex, oral, Oral Sex, first move
“You can place a note somewhere obvious so your partner gets an idea that you are interested in on some action. Write a post-it that says: ‘Come back to bed, I have a present for you.’ Place the post-it on the bathroom mirror after your partner goes to bed to make sure it is the first thing they see…”— Alex Caroline Robboy, sextherapyinphiladelphia.comTagged: initiate sex, notes, Letters
“Tell your partner about a sexy dream you had that left you thinking warm and sexy thoughts all day long. Try to incorporate him into the dream/story you tell.”— Jessica O'Reilly, eligiblemagazine.comTagged: initiate sex, Dreams, wet dreams
“Adult board games: This is a fun and sexy way of initiating foreplay. If you don’t have any adult board games at home, fret not. You can convert almost any board game or card game into its adult version. Just add a few sexy penalties and strip options to it.”— iDiva, idiva.comTagged: initiate sex, board games, Stripping
“Give him ‘that’ look. If you’ve been dating for long enough, then he’ll be able to tell that you’re horny by your eyes alone.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: initiate sex, Eye Contact, Horny
“Try a kiss on his neck or a little ear-nibbling while he's on the computer or watching TV.”— Denise Schipani, womansday.comTagged: initiate sex, Kisses, first move
“As you're sitting on the couch together, or over dinner, recall your best, sexiest memories. Saying things like, 'Hey, remember that time when we went to Jamaica on that vacation and it took us a whole afternoon to even leave the hotel room?' tells him that you are thinking about him in a sexual way…”— Denise Schipani, womansday.comTagged: initiate sex, Memories, remember, Sex
“While it might sound cheesy, there is literally no substitute for dirty talk. And it is rather simple too, once you’ve cast aside your inhibitions, you only have to tell him what you want to do to him, and what you’d like him to do to you.”— Sobiya N Moghul, indiatimes.comTagged: initiate sex, dirty talk, talking dirty
“Slip lacy or fishnet thigh highs under your normal clothes and give your guy a peek. You can either do this before you leave the house to draw things out or cash in your chips right away.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.comTagged: initiate sex, lingerie, fishnets, lace
“If you are feeling saucy and you know you want to get it on with your guy, make sure you choose a very hot film, and when it gets hot, show him exactly how hot you are feeling! Take some clothes off, show a little skin, lean in for the kiss… or just grab his balls and start to massage.”— Scarlet Robinson, youqueen.comTagged: initiate sex, Movies, Porn, Sex Scenes