“Keeping your clothes on. Don’t hide those curves — he loves them. Sex just isn’t the same without sensual skin-on-skin contact. Lose the t-shirt or the lingerie and get into the moment.”— Charli Penn, essence.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, clothing, Naked, nude
“Ignoring the REST of his body. While it may seem that the only part of a man’s body that needs pleasing is between his legs, men have other erogenous zones as well – and he wants you to pay extra attention to them.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, penis, erogenous zones
“When you stop making an effort with your underwear. I don’t want to see your granny pants on a daily basis.”— Hannah Gale, metro.co.ukTagged: Never Do During Sex, Underwear, lingerie, clothing
“Getting too physical. Unless he’s okayed it, you shouldn’t be in the business of leaving love marks on his body — especially not those that could leave a scar. (Back-scratching with long nails is what women are most guilty of.)”— Charli Penn, essence.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, rough, rough sex, scratching
“Crying. I don't care if this is the most moving sex ever (also, it probably isn't) — it isn't okay to cry during sex. You feel weird, he feels weird. And just, why? Don't do it.”— Liz Newman, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Crying, Tears, upset
“Just laying there while he takes control of the situation.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Lazy, Stiff
“Glancing at the time. If you want to convey to someone that you’re bored, and you haven’t gotten a text message that you can check to do so, you can always glance at the clock. But why would you do that? Why would you want to make someone feel so awful about themselves? Anyone who checks the time du…”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Clock, Time, impatient
“Don't stick to one sex position. Honestly, it becomes boring.”— Emma Ziff, blogher.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, sex positions, Boring, Variety
“Biting, in a bad way. When giving blow jobs, please keep your teeth away from my penis. It is not a meal.”— Hannah Gale, metro.co.ukTagged: Never Do During Sex, biting, blowjobs, Oral Sex
“If you feel like giving head to a guy, try to enjoy it. If you don’t think you’ll enjoy it, stay away from it. Don’t be the girl who brings a towel to bed and constantly spits something out while giving head. It’s incredibly putting off and really annoying too.”— Gerry Sanders, lovepanky.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Disgusted, Spitting, blowjob
“Kinky stuff like hot wax and handcuffs can be hot, but don't pull it out without warning.”— Malia Griggs, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, kinky, Hot Wax, handcuffs
“Allow the dog or the cat onto the bed with you.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, dog, Cat, Pets
“Silence. If simply laying there motionless is bad, laying there silently is even worse. Men like to know that they’re pleasing you and their egos can’t handle you lying there without so much as even giving them a grunt or a moan or something.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Silence, Quiet
“I never, ever want to hear the baby voice during sex. Full disclosure, I never want to hear it, but it's even worse during sex.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Baby Talk, Childish
“The lean back. Erect penises bend forward. This means: Don't ride a penis the same way you ride a bull. Lean forward or straight up. Don't lean all the way back. Quite simply, guys’ penises don't bend that way.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Riding Him, girl on top
“Comfy clothes. I know that you want to be in those comfortable jammies that you wear, but honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse is your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and put on a sexy bra or nightie; something you ca…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, pajamas, Comfort, lingerie
“Remain silent as you approach orgasm.”— Reed Tucker, marieclaire.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Silence, orgasm, moans
“Talk. Turn off any non-sexy talk. This is the time to connect with your partner in tactile ways. Get out of your head and into your body, and let your partner do the same.”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, talking, complaints, Conversation
“Unresponsiveness in the sack. Sex with a corpse is not a good thing. Don’t just lie there. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. If sex isn’t pleasurable for you, what’s missing? Try different positions, or locations throughout the house. Whatever ignites things for you.”— Corey Allan, simplemarriage.netTagged: Never Do During Sex, Unresponsive, Lazy, Stiff
“Not giving blowjobs. Somewhere along the way, some women picked up the belief that giving head is hard, or a burden, or even a little degrading. But the flip side to that is that it’s the empowering way to intimately making your man come. Men love enthusiasm.”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, blowjobs, Oral Sex, Enthusiasm
“Don't fake it. Its no secret we love women who have orgasms but faking it to please us only robs you of the pleasure you deserve and we want you to have. Besides, if we think we’re doing it right, it only makes us repeat the same style that achieved the fictitious result, and only takes you further…”— Richard, stylecaster.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, fake it, pretending, orgasm
“Not giving him guidance.”— Lisa Zamosky, webmd.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, help, Advice, Guidance
“See you becoming sleepy. Talk about a buzz kill. Showing you're sleepy shows him you're not focused and uninterested — both of which can ruin the moment.”— Liz Newman, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Tired, Sleep, Bored
“Referencing their ex’s technique. In referencing an ex’s technique during sex, you’re doing two things. 1) You’re comparing what your ex did to what your current partner is doing, which is beyond not cool. 2) You’re being rude.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Exes, comparisons
“They don't take care of their hygiene. Be aware of your overall health and hygiene. If you know you're going on a hot date with your honey, shower, shave and lotion yourself up with your favorite body lotion. Be aware of any infections and take good care of your health.”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, hygiene, shaving, Clean
“Catching air. When you're on top, nothing scares a guy more than when you bounce a little too high, and there's the chance of a botched landing. Catch some air and come down wrong, and you're looking at the possibility of a broken penis.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Riding Him, girl on top
“Criticism. It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite yo…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Criticism, complaints, Whining
“Worry about what you look like. Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm.”— Lisa Zamosky, webmd.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, self-conscious, Insecure, looks
“Don't tell your partner to cum for you. Yes, I know you have their best intentions at heart when you say it, but honestly, it isn’t really going to help matters. No matter how much you tell your partner to cum it just isn’t going to happen. You actually need to give them pleasure for it to work.”— Emma Ziff, blogher.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, orders, dirty talk